can someone help me ... LOVE ISSUES !?

aircraft_mech1 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-12-2010, 05:09 PM

Welll me and this guy have been talking for a while on face book and well i started getting feelings for him but not alto but i didn't wanna tell him .. and well now hes come to me saying he like me alto ...
what do i say to him ? like i think it Wu b selfish of me to say i like him knowing nothing will ever happen box were Mach to far apart .. anyone have any ideas ?
Thanks
and he is re all , a friend of mine has met him b4 .. Lol

i . l . y . s . m .<3 . · #2 (**permalink**) 06-13-2010, 05:09 PM

ask him if he would be willing to move to your area. then you can tell him.

AlmostAnon · #3 (**permalink**) 06-18-2010, 05:09 PM

just say whats on you mind, maybe it ll work out in the end

Harold S · #4 (**permalink**) 06-20-2010, 05:09 PM

Are u sure you are talking to somebody real cause you never know on the Internet..just tell him the truth ID sounds kinda sketchy to me..

paige b · #5 (**permalink**) 06-21-2010, 05:09 PM

I think that u shouldn't lead him but, instead, let him down slowly. Don't rush out and say "I just can't be into you" but slowly let him know that you don't wanna be. Say Ur so busy u don't even have time for a bf and things like that. Eventually he'll get the point that Ur not within his reach and he'll either drop it (unlikely) or just keep it buried until u seem within reach again.

Alessa A · #6 (**permalink**) 06-25-2010, 05:09 PM

Long distant relationships are hard and it can be difficult but they can work just give it a go what have you got to lose. Time will tell what happens and you never know he could be the one

geenaun · #7 (**permalink**) 06-26-2010, 05:09 PM

Dont go out with him if you never met him, he might be real and not some 50 year old, but its not worth it