I have a few questions reguarding love, and sex. PROFESSIONALS, WELL EXPERIENCED, OR DOCTORS recommended! HELP?

AlyssaH · #1 (**permalink**) 01-25-2009, 04:12 PM

When i was 10, i got my left ovary removed because of a tumor the size of a softball. My doctor said i was still able to get pregnant, but only a 50 % chance. I am currently 13 and me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex. If he doesn't use a condom, will i get pregnant? My boyfriend wants a child but we are Wattyo young to take care of a kid. He still wants to be sexually active, however, whiz i am fine with. We have been together since June 2010.
My 2 main questions are: If we have been together for 7 months, do you think we will last until 16 to have a child?
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since my percentage of getting pregnant is cut in half, should i still use a condom? should i still be on Birch control? will i be okay without either of them?

I've fucking had it!!!! · #2 (**permalink**) 01-30-2009, 04:12 PM

Naww cuz yo coochie is prolly stanky cuz u ain't cleaned it yet and i kno gurrrrl

pradeep · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 04:12 PM

I really think 13 is far too young. There's no way to guarantee that a guy will stick around, especially if he's got what he wanted.
I knew a girl whose doctors told her she'd never be able to have children. She got pregnant and had a healthy baby. Sometimes the doctors get it wrong. Don't have unprotected sex expecting that you won't get pregnant. People even get pregnant on birth control!

nastradamus · #4 (**permalink**) 02-02-2009, 04:12 PM

Just because you don't have an ovary doesn't mean you can predict when you'll ovulate. It is possible at any time to ovulate and while you are down one ovary, that doesn't mean it won't produce an egg every month and while you have less eggs, the average woman with both ovaries still has more than she will ever use in a lifetime (most of them never ovulate because they simply "die off"). So, yes you should use a condom or birth control.

keywestmile0 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 04:12 PM

You're 13 which means that he can get locked up for getting you pregnant. Use you brain girl. He can even get locked up for having sex with you. A baby? Wait hold up...did you finish school? Do y'all have a job? Who will be staying with the baby while you in school? are you ready to give up hanging out with friends? are you ready to give up partying? Who will pay the medical expenses? Who will pay for all the stuff for the baby (WHICH BELIEVE ME COSTS A LOT). How would you be able to set an example for that child if you're still a child yourself?! Also if DCF decides that you're unfit to raise a baby, they can take it away for good.USE A CONDOM OR DON'T HAVE SEX AT ALL. You are being very immature by thinking about a baby. Theres a good percentage that the baby daddy will leave. WAIT TILL YOU AT LEAST 16!? Child...GROW UP then talk about kids. How will you set an example when you are a kid? You are being extremely selfish, and immature. I tell it like it is. Life ain't no fairytale, raising a kid is HARD, and it puts a strain on the relationship between you and your boy. You are still a kid, what the hell do you need a baby for? To dress it up in pretty little clothes? Baby ain't no doll, and will have you getting up in the middle of the night. Stop being so damn irresponsible.

wildpalomino · #6 (**permalink**) 02-07-2009, 04:12 PM

I am over 60 and I know two women who slept with younger men(One each only)you know what they said, that's the first time in their life they enjoyed sex! They both are just over 50 yrs old when they did it .true story .
Sex at your age is like Americans eating Vegemite.