What can I do to get him back... does he still love me? Please help<3 best answer 10 pts?
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What can I do to get him back... does he still love me? Please help<3 best answer 10 pts?
I?m 17 and my ex-boyfriend is 16. We were so in love and would?vie done anything for each other. We just have one of those rare, really strong connections and we just get each other. We ended up losing our virginity's to each other which was extremely sacred to both of us but as young and naive as we are, we had planned on staying together forever. We picked out future kids names and everything But a month later his mom had found a note I had written to him (It was very stupid on my behalf, and it was somewhat descriptive about how we had sex.) We were already fighting about something stupid, and then his parents found all of this out and basically made him cut off all contact with me. His mom is really strict and conservative. He cried SO much. He told me we could still be friends, and maybe we?d date again in the future. But then he got angry for some reason and said ?I?m never gonna date you ever again.? & he definitely says things he dozen?t mean when he?s mad, but still? Then he said he dozen?t know what he wants anymore. At first, he was sneaking his phone and talking to me, but they found out and blocked my number. Then I went to give him his clothes back and he was so depressed. Even his brother said he would be fine one minute and the next he?d be quiet and he seemed really depressed. I don?t go to his school so I never see him, but my friends have told me he?s still wearing my bracelet, maybe he just likes the bracelet and it?s not about me. Idk. But, it?s been a week since I?vie tried contacting him because every time I do he just hangs up and ignores it. I just feel like if he loves me he would be finding a way to secretly talk to me, but instead I think he?s just over it. Also, I wrote an email and apologized to his parents a couple weeks ago, and his dad said ?no hard feelings? and that they?d write back later. And nothing. But they still don?t want him talking to me for a while. I have no closure and I don?t know exactly what?s going on with him, I CAN?T talk to him, and he dozen?t have closure either so I don?t know how he?s okay with this. I don?t know what to do, I?m trying to move on but then I?m stuck?. And I know he loved me, he was willing to do anything for me. How would it just go away like that..
OK first of all he will come around just do not sleep with any one else and go to his house and apologize to his mother and tell her it was a mistake and that u really love each other and pray i believe if u do this it will all work out
I would say talk to him and get some closure but it doesn't look hes very communicative with you. Sounds like hes got mental issues too or he just doesn't like you anymore. If hes acting like that than you are better off without him. It may hurt but you will get over it. Good luck.
in answer to your first question, i believe you dint need to get him back because he is still yours, for a number of reasons, when he says he doesn't know what he wants anymore or he isn't making a full effort to talk to you, you have to understand that his parents are breathing down his neck about it the whole time too. it's enough to make anyone feel pressured. give it time, and the fact that he's still wearing our bracelet isn't because he likes it ! it's because it reminds him of you, what kind of person would want a reminder of someone they're totally over?? he still loves you, he's just confused about his feelings. keep in contact with him, and with time, he'll have sorted out his feelings for you, and you can be together. time also gives the parents an opportunity to calm down.
It sounds like he's going through a hard time and maybe it's time that you back off a bit and give him space. If he loves you, he'll find a way to try and talk to you again and then you can work things out. But if he doesn't it might be time to move on. You know the saying:
"If you love something, set it free and if it comes back to you then it is yours forever; if not it was never meant to be."
Keep up your spirits and believe that things will get better. I wish you the best of luck and happy thoughts
Awww sweetie of course he still loves you but you have to understand that its probably even harder on him since its his own parents that are against it. He probably has to hear about it everyday. Who wouldn't be confused and depressed? Just give it sometime and I'm sure your situation will improve. Keep yourself busy so that you don't think about it that much and soon enough you'll be dating him again. I know it's so hard for you right now but if you're patient, good things come.
if losing your virginity's to each other was as big a deal as you say then hes probably upset about that and about how he lost you. hes not actually angry at you, hes angry at his parents for making him break up with you but he cant be mad at them so he directs it at you. i would just try and get into his parents good graces again by apologizing again but this time in person also bring so cookies or brownies and tell them that you never meant for it to end up like this. that you really do care about him and that you re sorry that what you did had offended her so much. send him an email telling him how much you care about him and how much you want to be with him. tell him that you re sorry about what happened with your family and that you re trying to fix it. if you just keep trying to make this better with his parents and remind him of how much you care it should work out.
if he truly loves you like he says , he will come around . if its real love and not just lust there is no way in hell he can just give up on you this easy. Plus you guys have been through way to much . just give it time and see what happens. dint really stress over it because its only going to hurt yourself even worse. Everything will work out just have faith in him and there is nothing that his parents can do , you guys are going to be together rather they like it or not. He's just in the phase where he do sent realize that yet. Once he does he will come back everything will work out sweetie just have faith
he still loves you alto more then you know it. he just don't know how to deal with whats all going on with y'all situation. his emotions is all over the place because he knows that he cant talk to you because of his parents. and everything he do he gets caught and his parents end up doing something. i have went through this many of times and i know what you are going through. it just best for you to give him time to get his self toge there and everything will be fine. once he gets himself together he will be doing everything he can to talk to you trust me on that. you just cant be worrying yourself about it because everything is going to be alright you just gotta give him sometimes. just like you thinking about him he doing the something. just give him some time to think.
I think that you should let things cool off with this his parents and after a while you might want to sit and talk with his parents and apologize. Talk to them and let them know that you guys really do love each other. Ask them if you can talk to him and let him know how you feel and ask him if he still feels the same way as you do. And if you guys are really in love like you say you are then try to convince his parents to let you guys see each other. Fight for your relationship. and if that doesn't work then you can sit around and wait to see if things work out or you can move on even if it hurts. Do what you think is right
What can I do to get him back... does he still love me? Please help<3 best answer 10 pts?
But a month later his mom had found a note I had written to him (It was very stupid on my behalf, and it was somewhat descriptive about how we had sex.) We were already fighting about something stupid, and then his parents found all of this out and basically made him cut off all contact with me. His mom is really strict and conservative. He cried SO much. He told me we could still be friends, and maybe we?d date again in the future. But then he got angry for some reason and said ?I?m never gonna date you ever again.? & he definitely says things he dozen?t mean when he?s mad, but still? Then he said he dozen?t know what he wants anymore. At first, he was sneaking his phone and talking to me, but they found out and blocked my number. Then I went to give him his clothes back and he was so depressed. Even his brother said he would be fine one minute and the next he?d be quiet and he seemed really depressed. I don?t go to his school so I never see him, but my friends have told me he?s still wearing my bracelet, maybe he just likes the bracelet and it?s not about me. Idk. But, it?s been a week since I?vie tried contacting him because every time I do he just hangs up and ignores it. I just feel like if he loves me he would be finding a way to secretly talk to me, but instead I think he?s just over it. Also, I wrote an email and apologized to his parents a couple weeks ago, and his dad said ?no hard feelings? and that they?d write back later. And nothing. But they still don?t want him talking to me for a while. I have no closure and I don?t know exactly what?s going on with him, I CAN?T talk to him, and he dozen?t have closure either so I don?t know how he?s okay with this. I don?t know what to do, I?m trying to move on but then I?m stuck?. 
And I know he loved me, he was willing to do anything for me. How would it just go away like that..
