My boyfriend cheated on me twice, with his ex, but I love him and I dont know what to do, help?
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My boyfriend cheated on me twice, with his ex, but I love him and I dont know what to do, help?
Im 14, he is 16. I really love him, and I'm finding it really frustrating. It's even making me feel like, I have to be like his ex, so that he'd never cheat on me again.
Follow your heart.
Does it feel right to stay with someone who cheated on you?
Or do you still love him enough to move past it and hope that he won't cheat again?
This boy is too old. And i know you have probably heard this from your parents and stuff, but he is probably just playing with you. He has his 16 year old girlfriend and he is just leading his little 14 year old on. I know it hurts sweetie, but its the truth. You gotta move on and realize there are much better guys out there than him, especially since he's cheated on you twice. And I'm sure there have been other times you don't know about, and I'm sure there will be more in the future... My advice to you: Get out before he can hurt you more than he already has.
If he has cheated on you twice and got away with it he will always cheat on you and he has no respect for you. Become his ex dump him and find someone who treats you better
You don't love him...you're infatuated with the person you wish he was...at your ages, exclusive relationships are tenuous anyway...both of you need to finish being kids, date around, and a few years down the road maybe consider being exclusive/serious with someone...
You're not even old enough for one-on-one dating yet...and FYI: you cannot control whether someone cheats or not, so don't think for a moment there's ANYTHING you could do to change yourself that would keep a guy from cheating (if he's the cheating type)...it doesn't work that way Hun...
If he has cheated on you twice he probably would do it again. Personally, if I was cheated on ONCE I would have a very hard time staying with that person. But since he's done it TWICE, it sounds like a trend. You should probably find a guy that really loves you and would never even THINK about doing something like that to you. Maybe find a guy who is less concerned with sex and more concerned with YOU. Good luck, and I hope you find a perfect guy because they are out there.
GET RID he obviously has no respect for you and does not love you no matter what lies he comes up with. don't ever feel that you have to be like someone else in order to gain someones love weather your 14 or 40. this boy does not care about you or you feeling if it was just once then that's forgive able but twice and he's taking advantage of you, your a young girl and can and will do much better than this waster leave him to go back to the idiot who he keeps cheating with.
Leave him. I remember I was in this situation..... it's 20 years later and I am so happy I let my ex-boyfriend go. If not, I would have never met the man I ended up marrying. I am telling you there are SOOOOOO many wonderful guys out there. It's going to hurt and you'll find yourself depressed and feeling sick to your stomach, but when you meet someone else and invest your time and energy into that new someone, you'll quickly forget all about the other guy. Being like his ex won't change his behavior either. The guy cheated on you, probably cheated on her too and will continue to cheat on any girl he dates.
You are only 14 and you are messing your life. Love is not enough when is only one way. Do you want to live a frustrating life? If not, get rid of him. He is only going to mess up your life and with so many disease you are putting your life in danger. Learn how to love yourself. You are not going to change him and he will continue cheating on you. He doesn't have any respect for you. Put a sign FOR SALE as big as Brazil and let him go.
if i were you i would get rid of him like the others said if he got away with twice he has in his head he knows that you will take him every time . i know i used to i take my ex back 7 times before hes a plays and your his game it sucks . well whatever you follow your heart i did and I'm with a guy who treats good