Caught in a love triangle and I need advice?

Just Me Being Me · #1 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 05:50 PM

Hi, so Ive been in a relationship with one girl for a year and a couple of months. Things have been stressful over this period as she suffers from mood swings due to depression. Over the last month or so it has been even more difficult with her becoming "snobby" or "narky" towards me for no reason. I have begged her to go see a Dr but she wouldn't. And recently i have found my my self spending time with another female friend who is helping me cheer up and handle the situation (non sexually). But i have now found myself falling for my friend and she likes me. I tried to end it with my ff but i couldn't bring myself to do it, she has said she will go to the Dr's and all. Which is good but now i find myself torn between the 2 girls. And I'm not gonna see both at once. Are there any ideas on how to choose between the two and how i can easily let the other one down?
cheers

Ahmad · #2 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 05:50 PM

If you really love your ff then stick to her.

DoYOUknow? · #3 (**permalink**) 02-07-2009, 05:50 PM

OK first there is no easy way to break up, it hurts and only time will heal, if a person is up lifting and positive in your life that's what you need, from experience depression is there for life and a person needs to be on melds generally, you need to be up for that Challenge dude

Scarlett · #4 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 05:50 PM

well, if shes going to the Dr, i guess you should wait for a while and see if she gets better. if the other girl actually KNOWS you like her then it will be kinda hard to tell her that you chose your ff. if you pick the other girl, dint tell her right now. shes already depressed so you will just hurt her more. the best solution right now is PATIENCE.

SVETLANA · #5 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 05:50 PM

I think I would be better if you give yourself a break. I think that you are a bit confused regarding on your feelings with your girlfriend. Each of us face our own problems and by facing these problems our loved ones are affected. Don't just jump into another relationship just because she's depressed. Try to talk to her and as much as possible do something to comfort her and help her. If she does not change i think its time to end up the relationship.
God bless your relationship!

R H · #6 (**permalink**) 02-16-2009, 05:50 PM

i second what Ewen said

it always hurts, but Ive just left my bf after 4 years, was bloody hard to do that because i really thought it was forever, but then i met another boy who, like you, was cheering me up and makes me feel brilliant and everything so if they make you feel like that, that's more healthy for you, as well as the best thing to do because we all deserve to be happy, and i ended my relationship about a week ago, and it still hurts but now all i wanna do is be with the guy who makes m happy and the pain is wearing away now i promise its better in the long run trust me

murky_kitty · #7 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 05:50 PM

your girlfriend needs you now..stay with her for some more time.