I Really want to get over the person i really like and maybe love. But I don't know how! Any advice?

ken401lam · #1 (**permalink**) 04-21-2010, 06:55 PM

Everytime i get ignored by that person it breaks my heart and i can't get that person out of my head i feel really sad all the time...I really want to move on but it seems impossible </3

pom_handler06 · #2 (**permalink**) 04-25-2010, 06:55 PM

Just let it be. You can force yourself or anyone to love you or to stop loving you; that's life. You'll find someone in the future, but just be patient and dint force yourself to stop loving him.

Desi · #3 (**permalink**) 04-30-2010, 06:55 PM

Brute force.
Or maybe you can go slowly.
I don't know, I'm not really into the psychological part of love.

vnbmuliyala · #4 (**permalink**) 05-02-2010, 06:55 PM

this is always a tough thing...i always get over someone by finding someone else. but, if you want to be single for a while, here's what i do:

-do anything that keeps your mind off him (go to a party, hang with friends, work out)
-dint bring him up (make sure you tell your friends not to ask about it)
-dint show him your hurting (you'll look desperate)

hope i helped!!

louis · #5 (**permalink**) 05-04-2010, 06:55 PM

I know what that's like, I went through that for about a year. The best I can tell you is to give it time. Keep your distance from them and try to forget them. I know it will be hard, but the longer you try the easier it becomes. A tactic I used: think of anything and everything you ever didn't like about the person. Write it down and throw it away, tell it to your pet (if you have 1), scream it into your pillow, draw a picture of them and shout it pretending it is them. Either way it's bad to keep it all inside. Try to find someone you can talk to about it. Believe it or not, it will help.