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Ok so I am 16 and the girl I'm in love with is 14. Our birthdays are just 3 days apart. We are both deeply in love with each other. She wants to give me her virginity and I want to give her mine. She is great beautiful, funny, smart. We've been talking for a while. But, she can't date me because her parents don't like the age difference. She says that we should wait 8 months , when I turn 17 and she turns 15. Then she said her parents might be a little more understanding. I guess 15 is a more mature age ID. But she says she didn't plan on falling in love with me, and I didn't plan on it either. But here we are madly in love. But in the meanwhile of those 8 months she said she wants to date other guys. She dates guys she won't fall in love with, guys that will eventually hurt her. This throws me off a bit. I don't see her alto so I guess until we are allowed to see each other she wants someone that she can see everyday. She promised to save herself for me, and to not fall for anyone but me. I am her first love and vice verse. I just don't know what to do. I mean 16 and 14 isn't that big an age difference is it? What should I do during these 8 months???
this is like me and my bf now but me and him are sneaking around but yes she does love you and just wait those 8 months but tell her how much you love her
date other girls , and i wanna ask u , what makes u believe that she won't fall in love with other guy , i mean loving someone is not a planned thing !!
I really can't tell you about virginity. To me, sex is sex....not a big deal. Love shouldn't be based on sex. I would definitely say that if this girl is seeing other guys she doesn't love you.
I am totally in love with my boyfriend and he with me. I would never date another guy because I have to wait for something? I am waiting, by the way. He lives with his parents and he just finished his master's degree. We want to live together and share a life together. Sometimes it's frustrating because of all this waiting, but I know he's worth it and I'm going to wait, like it or not.
Just take your time in your life and find someone that doesn't cause you to ask questions on Yahoo.
that its not an big age difference just 2 years?? why shouldn't her parents must be strict. because if she was 14 and you 18 or more then i will be worry. but you guys age is nothing. wait a little but dint be so sure about her. if i love someone like true love i wouldn't want to be with no one else at all. if all she wants is a boyfriend then boy i think your love is not for her. and second you guys shouldn't be losing your virginity to the first er son you fell in love with. wait till marriage and make a difference. that's the only thing you have full control of your virginity and its a privilege. once you loose it you cant get it back.
dump her. if she's not willing to be exclusive with you or no one for those 8 months, she's not really in love with you. you're so young, you're gonna find someone else.
she can't promise not to fall in love with anyone else. she didn't plan to fall in love with you but it happened, didn't it? you can't choose who you fall in love with, the heart doesn't work that way.
Ok here is a fool proof plan maybe you should talk with he parents alone or with your girl ((( it your choice))) but then kindly say to them that you would never hurt her and how you would always care for her and be sympathetic ok just persuade the parents to let you date her and tell them that you too will not have sex until marriage cuz that always helps the situation ok or there is another thing you could do you be miserable and date other girls with that girl you love on you mind and then brake other girls hearts and be hated among girls ((( if i were you i would chose the first one
I believe that she has strong feelings for you, and i do not think the age difference is that big of a deal, but you are boTh Wayung to be getting to serious, such as having sex. Believe me when i say it is worth waiting. I am speaking from experience, sex is a BIG step to take and should only be taken during marriage. I lost my virginity at the age of 15 and i regret it, it ruined mine and my boyfriends relationship and was the reason why i lost my first love. I know that it is very hard to wait, especially when you are in the heat of the moment, but think about it this way....You have all the time in the world to figure out your relationship with each other. Take baby steps, it is the right thing to do =)
look dint trip to much me well ii date guys that are 18 && up && am only 16 Jae... Bush look date other girls to && see if shes gonna like it ii me en if she wants you to take her virginity from her than she really loves you trust me
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