i need advice with love?

Vegetarian C · #1 (**permalink**) 05-10-2010, 07:24 PM

me and my boyfriend are 14. we have been dating for 6 months. he keeps pushing me into sending him pics of me in underwear......but i wont send him naked so he gets all mad at me. i feel that he doesn't respect my decision. if he loved me he would respect my decision. its ridiculous. then he likes to threaten me like there will be consequences....like every things a game.....what should i do?

♥Emily♥ · #2 (**permalink**) 05-14-2010, 07:24 PM

if he truly loved you, he would respect your decision. you deserve someone better than him.

Mrbond · #3 (**permalink**) 05-16-2010, 07:24 PM

A person who truly loves you will understand you, support you, be kind to you, care for you, pray for you, and respect your opinion.

xvikxpink · #4 (**permalink**) 05-21-2010, 07:24 PM

i say while the relationship isn't too serious and you re young get out of Th relationship, and trust me you will find a better guy!

no guy sh old pressure you under any circumstance especially getting mad at you not doing that!
please get out of the relationship Sweet<3

enjoi_baggy · #5 (**permalink**) 05-24-2010, 07:24 PM

Break up with him, he's using you for your body, just to see you naked.

Rev. Dr. Glen · #6 (**permalink**) 05-28-2010, 07:24 PM

Tell him, if you truly cared about me you would respect my decision and please stop asking.

Hafeman 5000 · #7 (**permalink**) 06-02-2010, 07:24 PM

take control of his computer and delete the pics and never ever send him more photos. And if he threatens you, talk to the police about it. This is no joke.

Laila · #8 (**permalink**) 06-04-2010, 07:24 PM

Well that isn't love honey.
Break up with him. If he gets mad, and starts getting abusive, then tell an adult as soon as possible.

mexicanboy18 · #9 (**permalink**) 06-06-2010, 07:24 PM

your 14.he thinks Ur stupid..hes pressuring u...Ur dad should know...but u probably dint want Ur dad to scare him away..so u will let him hurt then Ill learn...that's growing up,,,

CanineHeroTahoe · #10 (**permalink**) 06-09-2010, 07:24 PM

This guy just wants sex from you!!! Don't give it to him and in fact he does not respect you...Learn early
in your life about these kind of guys..They are all over the place today...You want to save yourself for the guy you really fall in love with one day and you want to get married before you have sex!! Even the pictures you already sent him could wind up on the Internet...I don't mean to scare you but that might be the consequences that he was talking about...If he does this, I believe you can bring charges against him...He is a sick pervert at fourteen...His parents should really know about this...If he does publish your pics, that is what his consequences should be!!!