love triangle with baby involved... HELP!?

introspective rissa · #1 (**permalink**) 07-30-2010, 07:24 PM

i started working at a pub about 3 months ago and instantly fell for a girl who also works there. only issue was she was engaged but unhappy. so anyway... we ended up sleeping together and now she carrying my child but she don't no if she wants to go back with her ex... to make things worst we got together and then had a break because she needed to think about if she was doing the right thing and she slept with her ex last night.

just came off the phone to her and she said she wants me 100% and less than half an hour later she sent me a message saying she wasn't sure what she wanted! I've fallen madly for her and she says she loves me too but i don't no what to do/think/say!
oh and by the way we know its 100% mine. the dates all add up and we have not spent a night apart since we got together. also she was using protection with her ex FACT!

Talycia B · #2 (**permalink**) 08-03-2010, 07:24 PM

If she really loves you, she would let go of that guy knowing that shes carrying Ur child, if she is having second thoughts then it might be because she is not sure of her child's father as well. have u considered asking her that question ?? although her mood swings should be taken into consideration as well.. id advice to sit her down and talk to her, not on the phone but in person.

HelloKelly(: · #3 (**permalink**) 08-04-2010, 07:24 PM

You're an idiot.

Anikqua S · #4 (**permalink**) 08-06-2010, 07:24 PM

http://divpat.org/ThePriceOfSexOutsideMarriage

You sound like you are gullible. Will believe anything a female tells you.

jamesmarsh4 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-07-2010, 07:24 PM

Good God are you even sure it's your kid?? This broad sound like she's trying to pull one over on you. I'd advise to take a step back from the "relationship" until the child is born, then get a paternity test to make sure the child is yours. She'll have to come clean to the fiancee and it's best she do that by herself.

Take a big step back from this and wait until you know if the child is yours of not.

bob · #6 (**permalink**) 08-08-2010, 07:24 PM

i would back off until she makes her mind up.