me and my girlfriend broke up because she is still in love with the other guy i need an advice?

zsaffireblue2003 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-05-2010, 07:25 PM

me and my girlfriend broke up BC she still thinks about this guy that she fell in love with 4 years ago but broke up and since then shes been looking for guys that make that certain guy fade away from her life but when she st rats to fall in love she starts to remember him again. We broke up yesterday she still loves me and everything but she tells me she doesn't know how not to be with me but she just doesn't feel the butterflies when shes with me shes not in love with me anymore and I'm still am. we both cried and everything but ID what to do if i want to help her or just let time go by and see what happens we ended up good as friends. so can anyone tell me what should i do

dbrsa · #2 (**permalink**) 06-07-2010, 07:25 PM

She sounds like a bitch. Move on, amigo.

Ola Shano · #3 (**permalink**) 06-11-2010, 07:25 PM

move on. she is obviously in love with someone else.

aural13 · #4 (**permalink**) 06-15-2010, 07:25 PM

She's hung up on this other guy which means you either stick with her and wait till she's over him (IF she is) or you leave and find yourself another girl who's emotionally available for you.Your choice.

Barkley Hound · #5 (**permalink**) 06-18-2010, 07:25 PM

yes. he res what you do. you eff in man up and try to keep nailing this girl for as long as you can. she doesn't want to be with you in a relationship, that's obvious. doesn't mean you can't keep banging her until you do find a woman that wants to be with you in a way you want. its your job as man to beat it up for as long as you can, this is your chance to do the kind of things with a woman that you wouldn't do with one you care about and respect. no real guy anywhere will disagree with me.

Lindsey D · #6 (**permalink**) 06-19-2010, 07:25 PM

She obviously is not ready to commit in a relationship. So the obvious thing to do is to let her go. Adn please do not give in to the temptation of allowing her to yo yo you back and forth. She either is ready to love you completely or she is not. This does not mean it will not change the way she feels la tr on. Just do not waste time waiting around for her. Find someone who will feel the butterflies for you. After all, don't you want all or nothing? Good luck to you!