i just need help on first "love"! girls, guys.. anyone with helpful advice!?

cuteness · #1 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 07:05 PM

me and my boy...friend.....ex boyfriend... broke up about a month ago..
and i still like him a lot..
we broke up because of.. distance? we didn't see each other at all.. so he called it off..
but i just want to know if i should give up on him,
or if i should still like him..
because we broke up because of.. not being close by each other?
i think..

i just need advice..

because he was my first boyfriend dd

cathy h · #2 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 07:05 PM

Yea, you should move on and forget him. Distance is a relationship killer given enough time. Anyways you will find love again. I've found "love" many times in my life but someone always comes along who i think could be the one...

Losasha · #3 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 07:05 PM

i be live that you should just give up on him if this was your first boyfriend there will be plenty more boys that you will love and if he called it off because of distance there is really nu thing else that you could do unless Thu move more closer i know that's not the ans er you want to hear but if he loves you he will let you know dint stay on one boy because there will Be plenty more of them trust ME i know it seems like the end of the world now but soon it will change

CRAZZY · #4 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 07:05 PM

Distance is a really big prob , long distance relationships never work out . sorry :/

PeAceOuThOmEsLiCe!! · #5 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 07:05 PM

dude the same thing happened to me!!!!!!!!! my first bf moved away. he broke it off CZ of distance. we still talked everyday, but then i moved closer to him and we went out again. in your case, just be his friend. you have your whole life ahead of you, if he wants you back and you still feel the same a few years later then you can go at it again, until then just try to put him in the back of your mind and just be his friend