HELP I am in deep LOVE! (best answer 10 points)?

howard s · #1 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 07:20 PM

I like this boy in our class... well actually I LOVE him. It is getting more and more every day!
It is like an illness now, I love him Soho much I can't take my mind and eyes off him.
He doesn't really like me we even talk hardly... But I just am totally in love with him.
I dint even concentrate on work anymore! Do you understand how I feel?

What do I do, how can I get him to like me?
P.S: he isn't really that attractive for a lot of people or he doesn't have a girlfriend.
he gets into trouble quite alto but i never!

PLEASE HELP! Iam in DEEP LOVE.

dint forget best answer 10 points!! Please please please help!

Diva-Ish · #2 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 07:20 PM

Why don't you start talking to him more and then you two will become friends? When your friends, be there for him and he'll start to trust you and maybe he will like you as well! But don't force him to love you, it's up to him. Just wait, it will take time. Good Luck!

luigi · #3 (**permalink**) 02-14-2009, 07:20 PM

I understand. I was that way with my boyfriend, first and only, and we've been dating almost a year and a half. I just tried to incorporate myself into parts of his life. Then, make small talk, which leads to talking and testing, and the relationship develops from there. I just made small talk, and we became friends, then bf-ff. we are deeply in love, and planning on marrying.

best of luck to you!

boomergraciercks · #4 (**permalink**) 02-15-2009, 07:20 PM

Turn on the flirt!! Let him know that you are interested, talk to him as much as you can in person.

DaniRae · #5 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 07:20 PM

Well make small talk ask him if you could borrow a pen or a pencil that way he recognizes you when you ask and when you give it back....say hi...not all crazy though just a little smile then turn away then maybe gradually talk to him say something like " its so cold in here" start small and hell eventually be more interested!!

(^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) · #6 (**permalink**) 02-24-2009, 07:20 PM

Try becoming his friend first of all and get his phone number. Text him and talk to him then when you get closer try asking him out to a movie or something. Don't act like you really want him or he might think you are desperate. Eventually, hopefully, he might start to like you. Just be nice to him and make friends first and that's how a lot of relationships develop into something more.

P.S. Don't say you love him or you will scare him away. Just be casual OK?

Caroline ♥ · #7 (**permalink**) 03-01-2009, 07:20 PM

Talk to him more strike up any conversation. After that start touching him in places that are not so obvious but you want to touch him. If he is relax that is a really good sign. Then start to flirt.