Why do women love to have babies with the badboys then expect the nice guys to help take care of it?

NorthernCA/FL · #1 (**permalink**) 11-16-2008, 08:04 PM

This is exactly what i been telling one of my friends who now lives with me in MY HOUSE! He is in between jobs and i known him since we were 7 years old. Were both 30 now. Two years ago there was this girl who went to college which my friend who wanted to date her! Acrouse she turned him down because she ended up going out with this gangster guy (who was exciting and dangerous and also didn't have a job! All the things women love in a guy right?) Well he ended up getting her pregnant and after she had the baby he left her.. Well one day she let him drive her car. Guess what, he left drugs in the car and she got pulled over for running a red light. Cops found the coke, arrested her and she got 2 years in prison for it and he NEVER answered or came by her side as she was crying for him for help. So I'm sitting on my house and i get this call from some LA county Jail collect call. I hung up. I told my friend somebody from jail was trying to reach him, he told me who it was and i was like tell her dint come here. Well she showed up over the weekend to my house and ask where my friend was. I told her to get lost has she had her baby with her. She said well he said i can come live with him in his room! I laugh and close the door and tell her to get her *** to a shelter or her baby daddy house. She said her and baby daddy ain't together anymore! I tell her I'm a misogynist and get the **** out of her because i dint like women in the first place. She cries and leaves, friend comes home yelling at me about it! I kicked his lazy *** out my house and told both bitches to go to a shelter together! Did i do the right thing?

OleMarbleEyes · #2 (**permalink**) 11-20-2008, 08:04 PM

i think u were a bit harsh ....just saying

Sharing Mind · #3 (**permalink**) 11-24-2008, 08:04 PM

As the other person said, you were a bit harsh. But, it's your house. You have every right to decide who lives there and who doesn't. I wouldn't have allowed her to live there either.

ravensteve85 · #4 (**permalink**) 11-29-2008, 08:04 PM

Wow... somewhat of a change from the other stuff you have been spewing.
So now it is your friend, instead of you, who has the girl that dropped him
for a "bad boy"? I wonder how many times you are going to post this version.

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Zachary H · #5 (**permalink**) 12-01-2008, 08:04 PM

I'm a female, and i would have done the same thing. still though, i don't understand why you're complaining when you let these people get involved in your life in the first place.
i wouldn't have let her come and stay at my house, especially with the way her situation is. it's too much drama. I'm sorry she had a baby with her, but there's only so much you can do for a person. the baby, nor the woman, is your responsibility. your friend isn't either. he was bold to think he can invite someone to stay with him when he's living in another persons house.