i need help my mum frecked out wen she saw a pic of me and my bf in his bedroom and then she saw a love bite?

tell her to butt out. its Ur business. sneak out of the house

I wonder why she doesn't want you to spend time with him.

Your mom did the right thing. You are too young to be in a boy's bedroom!

You probably just need to be honest with your mum and tell her whats happening and see if she will accept whatever is going on then go from there.

Just tell your mom that you think you're old enough to have a boyfriend.

Let her know what it is exactly you want to do with him, and hopefully it isn't sex because parents are not good with letting their kids have sex...

Just avoid that word and "boy", in the same sentence. Don't push it.

Just say your going to hangout with your friends at the movies or the mall and actually go with him.
Im 14 too and i do that all the time when my mom wont let me see my boyfriend.

Can you answer my question too please?

The same thing happened to me many years ago at your age (though not with a pic--my mother saw it on my neck). Our solution might still work for you. He has to call your mother (on the phone, not write an email) and apologize and admit it was a childish or disrespectful thing to do and say he won't do it again, and ask permission to take you on a date. Then you two go on a date where he comes and picks you up at the house and says hello nicely to your mother and then takes you for a meal or a movie or whatever, and then he takes you home. Just like in the old-fashioned days. Then you two will gradually regain your mother's trust.

When you have a daughter of 14 you will encourage her to visit the bedrooms of 15 year old boys. I doubt it. Think deeply about it then you may have some idea why your mum feels protective of you. Also, tough to accept but, you are in her care until the age of 18. Show some true maturity and perhaps she may trust you to be sensible. Other than that you will likely be up the duff in a few weeks time.

she's just worried about you. and i think she may be worried that you maybe moving to fast with your boyfriend. so you need to prove that your mature enough for a boyfriend by sticking to her rules and taking them on the chin then she will calm down. And apologies (i know it sucks and you don't have anything to apologies for) for your behavior cos it will smooth the waters a little and show her your more mature then she thinks you are