I have a question about best friends and love, so please, advice would be great.?

your friend · #1 (**permalink**) 01-17-2009, 08:24 PM

I'm in love with my best friend and he has already been told that I love him. We were play-fighting a few nights ago when everything shifted a little. He kissed me, several times. He was very sweet to me. Nothing else happened that night and we are still talking to each other like no thing's changed. When I asked him the next morning why he did that all of a sudden, all he would say was he wouldn't tell me because he wants to keep me guessing. What on earth is going on? I'm totally confused about it still.

kincaid1 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-21-2009, 08:24 PM

Well to be honest I think he really likes you. I mean he kissed you... If he wasn't drunk it sounds pretty much like he does fancy you too. Especially cause he is not answering why he did it. Just my opinion, but Pl dint take it for the truth, as it clad be something else and dint be disappointed if he doesn't feel the same, but it does sound like he likes you. GD luck

Gem · #3 (**permalink**) 01-24-2009, 08:24 PM

he likes you. that same thing has happened with me and my best guy friend, i liked him and he also ended up liking me. we have now been together for a year and its still going strong. its good when you fall in love with your best friend because that means your both very close. he tells you to keep guessing biz he is playing a game with you which is like flirting

Allen N · #4 (**permalink**) 01-26-2009, 08:24 PM

I would say that the guy has the same feelings for you. Unless he is a total ass and would do something to inflict pain to his best friend. As far as his answer is concerned, he must be a playful guy but you need to set him straight and tell him love isn't a game.

imdpo · #5 (**permalink**) 01-27-2009, 08:24 PM

2 possibilities; he's either serious about loving you and wants more than a relationship, or he's fine with the way things are between the two of you and is possibly considering you as a sexual friend.