Sex should be something that you share with someone you care about...especially since the first time you do it will be awkward, a little painful, and it will bring up a lot of emotions. Do you really want the person that shares this moment to be some random guy? At 15 your still so young, wait at least until you graduate from high school and have a little more perspective on the world before you make such a big decision. As for this guy, at 18 his head is in a very different place than yours, maybe you need to take a break from dating just one guy. Instead why don't you have a few friends that you hang out with, being monogamous right now when your so young shuts the door on other possibilities.
As for those guys who only want one thing, you are more than just a vagina...even if all they are is just a bunch of d1Cs. Take your time and know that the opportunity for sex is always going to be there. Don't let the pressure from your friends or from a guy push you into making a decision you regret. High school (believe it or not) is the last chance for you to be a kid before the world tosses you into the world of adulthood. HAVE FUN, join clubs, go to football games, go to dances, go on adventures...when the time is right and the guy is the right one, you'll know it.
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