Please dont skip over this question..i'm really in need of advice. it's about a love triangle. please?? ?

kasandra · #1 (**permalink**) 01-17-2009, 08:35 PM

let's start out with this little tidbit of info: I'm bi. I'm 15.
and i like someone who is 16, and they like someone who is 17. the 17 year old is in a relationship, but is a complete flirt and actually told the 16 year old that they had more than friend feelings for them. let's call us Alex (me), SAM, and Cameron.
Alex likes SAM, but SAM likes Cameron. and Cameron has a boyfriend, but is also bi.
we're all girls.
i recently developed a crush on my best friend, who is SAM, and she is crushing on cameron,.we've already gone over that.
sam thinks that i'm straight, but i found out that i'm bi. and nobody knows.
but i think she suspects that i have more than friend feelings for her, because when i asked sam if she could ask me anything at ALL in the world, what would it be, she said "i would ask 'have you ever had more than friend feelings for me?'"
so i'm really clueless on what to do. because i HIGHLY doubt that sam likes me back, but it's not like i can control my feelings. you know?
it's really just an all girl love triangle.

so yahoo answerers: what do i do from here????? please help. at least answer part of it.
does she think i like her?
should i tell her i like her?
what do i DO?
just...answer something, please?
<3 thanks.

ammut** · #2 (**permalink**) 01-20-2009, 08:35 PM

Tell her how you feel. It's not as if she is straight and would think you are discus ting because you like her. She clearly already has suspicions and most likely knows you have feelings for her. As for the seventeen year old, it doesn't matter. Everything will fall into place eventually. Maybe all you have to do is tell the truth

sahm2boys · #3 (**permalink**) 01-23-2009, 08:35 PM

Well, first and foremost, you should tell her (seeing as she's your best friend) that you're bi. Secondly, I think she thinks SOMETHING, if nothing, about you liking her. (Considering she would ask that certain question.)
And in my opinion, telling her you like her could possibly just make things extremely awkward. Or not.

Good luck!

Aliiak · #4 (**permalink**) 01-26-2009, 08:35 PM

u r lucky i didn't skip over this. I would tell her, she is your best friend. and if she doesn't understand then what kind of friend is she?