Gay Love story with a twist lol, please give me some advice x?

Tinka · #1 (**permalink**) 04-17-2010, 09:51 PM

I'm a 16 year old male from the UK, Im secretly gay and in love with my friend who is 22 but I don't even know if he is gay

anyway his openly gay twin has randomly started testing me flirting with me abed asking me to come to gay nightclubs but be said "even if ya not gay you will still like it"

I've fell for both of them I really have

, with Nathan I've been his friend for 2 years and have such strong feelings but I feel distressed because I don't know if he feels the same

whereas with Dave, he is openly gay and I think he sort of knows I am so I wouldn't have to "come out" he's blatantly flirting with me but the only problem is he sleeps around a bit.

I dint know what to do but while me and Dave were text in tonight I called him sexy which is a big move for because it's sort of the first step to "coming out" Lil GE replied with "I will :P x" Anyway what if Nathan finds our? It will ruin our friendship

arnold · #2 (**permalink**) 04-19-2010, 09:51 PM

all i can say is awkward

KATHYANN C · #3 (**permalink**) 04-24-2010, 09:51 PM

well, you would've thought of that. now, you're in trouble, besides being jail bait. and while poor Dave is in London tower for sexual assault on a minor, you and Nathan can cry together over your ginger beer. but don't try to get him to play footsie or he'll end up in the cell next to his brother. can't you find someone your own age to fall in love with?

crystal_raindrop · #4 (**permalink**) 04-27-2010, 09:51 PM

You are very young Are you sure that you r gay or not.
And have you thought about what u miss for hairy butts?
Soft white breasts with cute sharp nipples, soft sweet cherry lips, real round smooth asses, and sweet smiley pies? Oh , and they look at you -strong smart man- with their big confused eyes asking for help? You are too young to decide about it yet. Also it is illegal for a man 22 to get his willie brown by a boy 16.
Abnormal bored modern youth...

I'mWife4LifeKnowDat! · #5 (**permalink**) 05-01-2010, 09:51 PM

Go for Nathan!

Trust me! You've actually had a past with Nathan and the two of you share experiences together. If the relationship between you two does not work out, you'll still be great friends. If you choose Dave, you'll not only enter a short relationship, but you'll also destroy any chance you had with Nathan. Nathan will definitely feel terrible that you decided to date his brother instead of him and if you ever try to go out with him later, he'll think you chose him as an alternative to Dave, and no one wants to be the back-up plan.

If Nathan does like you, which I think he does, you'll find it very rewarding that you decided to persevere.

I think you like Dave because he's cute and you're 100% certain that he is gay. You like Nathan because you actually fell in love with his personality. Even if you're not 100% sure if he is gay, you should definitely find out! Nathan seems like the type who actually cares about you. He's the one who wants to go out with you for the rest of his life, and he definitely seems devoted to you, alone. Dave, on the other hand, is just looking for a fun time. Once he's done with you, he'll quickly more on to someone else.

Nathan, is definitely the right choice

lowpointroad · #6 (**permalink**) 05-06-2010, 09:51 PM

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