I'm terribly in love with this girl. should i just tell her how deeply in love i am with her. please help?
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I'm terribly in love with this girl. should i just tell her how deeply in love i am with her. please help?
there's this girl at school and i am madly in love with her. she's a friend but we don't know each other very well. its been this way for 4 months now and i tried to get friendly with her and tried to get her like me over the summer, but i hardly got to see her. so that didn't work out. I've waited too long now. should i just run up to her while she's alone and tell her how deeply i love her?
the last few days have been torture. can't eat, can't concentrate, can't do anything to take my mind off. i just feel so down hearted and can't stop thinking about her. i feel this will end if i tell her how i feel.
and no this is not some crush as i wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with this girl.
please help me ... I'm going insane.
NOPE, absolutely do NOT run up to this girl and start blurting out feelings......especially that you LOVE her and other assorted nonsense !!!!! She will RUN for the frig gin hills, faster than you can believe.
What you want to do is play it a bit cooler. When you get a chance to see her , talk to her say something like its really too bad we couldn't spend more time over the summer....How would you like to catch up sometime...maybe have lunch or see a movie or something.......!!!!
Once again, DO NOT, I repeat do NOT run up to this girl and start blurting out feelings!!!!!!!!
Don't start blurting out feelings at lunch or at the movies EITHER !!!!!
By your own admission, you barely even know this girl. LOVE is a two way street, and develops with a RELATIONSHIP.....this girl barely gives you the time of day.
LOVE is not a one way street. So get the word LOVE out of your head. Like many girls here have stated, you will CREEP THE HELL OUT OF HER coming on too strong.
um, and don't say you want to be FRIENDS either !!!! You don't want to be FRIENDS. Girls don't show their Pu Sirs to their friends.
In short, Don't say anything stupid !!!! Get it, got it GOOD.
This girl MIGHT have the same feelings for you too...who knows.....you will find out as soon as you ask her for lunch, ice cream, or the movies......if she practically jumps for joy when you ask her....then you secretly know that you are IN....
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention....don't just run up to her and start asking her out....chit chat her a bit...find out what she did over the summer etc............then say something like, OH I always really enjoy talking with you.....think we could continue this conversation say Over lunch???? ECT.......Or something like,
Yey, are you on face book or anything like that?? Maybe we could chat on line......
Um, the WORST that can happen if you start just rushing up an blurting out your feelings is the girl will start freaking out, saying you betrayed her and all sorts of crap. Maybe worse.
Yes, Spilling the beans.....shouldn't be done unless you are seriously see this girl start to take off clothing.....or help you take of your pants........Even still, using the word LOVE is risky !!! She just might want to SCREW!!!