true friend & love advice?

Kanga_tush2 · #1 (**permalink**) 07-17-2010, 10:16 PM

hello world. i am a college student who needs a love in his life. i never had a girlfriend in my life. i feel very distant from most people at school, because i am highly creative in my own imaginary world but that distances my social life. I'm not sure why i get this spark when i see that special girl, in which i become interested in talking to. i have a younger brother who is a scholar at talking and flirting with girls, i differentiate. i kind of "stalk" and "follow" women. but i got in trouble a long time ago for stalking a manager, i didn't got arrested or anything but i sure learned my lesson. i just wanna love that special friend, a true friend who understands my view of life, and not be like me. and that true friend can show me the way on how to be a real man.

con-man · #2 (**permalink**) 07-19-2010, 10:16 PM

Start an actual conversation with her!
don't stalk her ha ha that will ruin everything ! Lil plus she'll think you're weird
Talk to her and say hi when you pass by her
after a few weeks ask if she wants to hang out sometime
if she doesn't talk back to you a lot she's prob not interested
however you could always become friends with that girl AND then start to date

justagirl77 · #3 (**permalink**) 07-20-2010, 10:16 PM

Can your brother give you an advice? If not then take the initiative yourself. Talk to the girl, find out what she likes and dislikes. Go for coffee with her, then for lunch, then for dinner, then for dinner and movies, then try kissing her and see how it goes.

gardensallday · #4 (**permalink**) 07-24-2010, 10:16 PM

try meet up.com to find a like minded person

Mary Ann K · #5 (**permalink**) 07-27-2010, 10:16 PM

I was always told that in life "what is for you, will never pass you" and i really believe this. Your time will come and that special someone will enter your life at the right time for you. maybe now is not the right time for you yet. you just have to wait for it to come around and it will.

As for being showed the way to becoming a real man, that comes with life experience and that comes with time.

As for the stalking part, it sounds like you already know that this doesn't attract friends, rather pushes people away. You sound like a genuine, big hearted person so that will take you a long way.