Love hurts, and falling in love with the wrong person hurts even more.. I need help?

rcksrxy · #1 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 10:09 PM

I feel in love yesterday. With someone so gorgeous. Something I didn't know.. he used me, for sex. Couldn't he tell how many times I stared into his eyes? Actually , I don't know if he truly used me, but I feel broken. He said he wanted to see me to get to know me, but he couldn't resists not having sex with me because I was " hot " . But now , that I'm home, I see myself missing him, like crazy.

I left my sweater at his house, he thinks I did it purposely. I told him I didn't, and I asked me if he wanted to see me again. He said yes. But something seems wrong... very wrong.

I hate love.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!! · #2 (**permalink**) 02-16-2009, 10:09 PM

my troll senses are tingling.

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Taylor C · #3 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 10:09 PM

sorry to say there might be a difference on what you think and expect from love compared to others,
i can't say that what you are doing is wrong or anything but there are always people willing to smile and care for you around, just look at your position in a new perspective

hope it helped

Space Penguin · #4 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 10:09 PM

Don't go into sex too quick.

You don't know you were used for sex, so never assume the worst. Go out with him, laugh together, go watch a movie or something. Get to know him better, after that you'll see a difference, or the nice guy that he is.

Also, don't think you are in love, because the guy is "good-looking", remember that love is both looks and personality.

B.

Derek K · #5 (**permalink**) 02-21-2009, 10:09 PM

Omg, Hun. Listen Don't feel bad. Try to see this as a LifeLesson. Try not to have sex on the first date. Yea he was hot but you should have thought about that when you guys were at his house. The point is that if he wants you he'll be the one calling you!!!!! Give it time, maybe he wants to think things over, best of luck