Ok listen up bro... Your EX-ff may have needed some time but no way to break your heart. And she did. If she loved you like deeply and truly, she wouldn't have felt the need to leave you or take a break or any of that crap. So my advice? Go get a picture of her, burn it and flush it down your toilet. You don't need her to live. You've been alive all these months that she wasn't there to share with you. You may have talked about getting married, having kids, having a life together but heck man! Even relationships that last for a week have the same gooey things. The money? Find some way to get it back. Give her a deadline and say you want all the money by then. If she doesn't return, then you call her but only to ask for it. Nothing else. It's time to move on man. Get up, brush yourself off and head towards a different life. STOP fussing about your hair! Doesn't matter... no girl counts the hair or measures its diameter when she's looking for a husband. It's whats inside that matters. Change yourself. This thing has to make you bulletproof (not literally) and not more vulnerable. Hang out more with your friends, your family cause man, they also need you in their life and you need them as well. So forget this person. She was your past, maybe your first love but stop making her look so damn glorious in your mind because while doing so, you're ignoring everything bad about her. So move on. Get a life, get a wife. Go ahead. I repeat: You don't need her.
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