Love Problem... Please Plz plz plzzzz help me.?

Jenna P · #1 (**permalink**) 06-29-2010, 12:04 AM

Love Problem... Please help me.

Here is my story in brief.
I saw this girl on Facebook. I got a huge crush on her. I m simply mad for her. I know u might think that I like her face but then I started
stalking her. I started knowing her everyday. I became a fan of her. I kept eye on every thing she does on Facebook.

I wanted to reveal myself but I never was able to do. I sent her a lot of frond requests but she kept on rejecting me but never blocked me.

One day I sent her a mail telling her about my crush. I kept my name hidden CZ I didn't have so much of guts.

She understood my situation and thought it is normal. She wanted to know my name but I didn't give her.

it kept on eating me from inside and I wanted to reveal myself. On her birthday I did that.

I sent her a mail and she finally got me. She had no problem with me stalking on her.

She replied that she wants to love me but she simply can't. Cuz it will not work with a computer screen. She feels that I m too much liking her
face and she thinks it is just a huge crush.

I sent her friend request and this time she accepted. I tried to chat with her and she kept on replying but very late. Sometimes I had to wait for
30 Min's even to get a reply back from her.

She never opened up to me much even if I tried my best to befriend with her.

Once I asked her If I can send her some good songs via email and she replied go ahead.

From that day I sent her many songs. All with good lyrics. But she never replied to me if she is even checking those songs.

These days when I ping her she goes offline without replying.

I dunno what is going on. I like her very much. Though I have never met her but I believe I will someday.

I dun want to get misunderstood by her for any bad actions like those despot guys do mainly.
She is a complete introvert and I simply dunno how to get a little space in her heart.

It's been weeks I m sending her songs. Should I Keep on sending her or not. I hope i m not annoying her.

What should I do???!!! I m too innocent and I was never in a relationship ever before in my lifetime.

If u can't solve it then kindly dun put rubbish comments like that girl must be using photo shop or anything nearly synonym to such type of things.

Thanking all of u for Ur attentions

The shared secret · #2 (**permalink**) 07-04-2010, 12:04 AM

I am sorry this is not love .... stop stalking girls.... fall in luv with a real girl...... all the best

Kuntry_Bama_Boi · #3 (**permalink**) 07-07-2010, 12:04 AM

You should not stalk her, whether she is okay with it or not. That is taking it too far considering you haven't even met her. If it is just a 'over the computer' thing, then I suggest you just try to forget about it or not try so hard to befriend her. She obviously doesn't like you the same way. Things like this most likely will not work out. Sorry for the bluntness, just trying to state some facts for you. At least that's my opinion anyway.

mercy 66 · #4 (**permalink**) 07-12-2010, 12:04 AM

Dude, you better stop sending her songs now,
honestly, i think you are annoying her.
The fact that you send her 50 songs
maybe she just checked out 1-10 songs you sent her.
You have to sometimes accept the fact that
there are things which cant be possible..
She tried to be kind on you when she said that
she wants to love you but it will not work on a computer screen..
But what she really meant is that it will never work okay?
Shes beautiful and if she is,then you cant deny the fact that
many guys are courting her in her place/school/community..

Im sorry to say this, but just get over it..
If you continue doing what your doing now,
she will "unfired" you sooner and will never chat with you again..
Try this dude:

If you are on line on face book and you saw her on line
dint PING / PM her, just let it be that way..
If she PINGS you first then that means she sees you as a friend
if she doesn't, it means she doesn't care..
Simple as that..

Im not trying to disappoint you..
But this are my OPINION
and i think its close to FACTS =)

midnightmoon62 · #5 (**permalink**) 07-17-2010, 12:04 AM

i know its hard but ignore her .. If she asks u why u ha vent talked just say Ive been busy
you really sound obsessed like infatuated i hope i didn't offend you
not to crush your hopes, but you gotta earn respect
right now she knows she can have you in a click of finger

Tina N · #6 (**permalink**) 07-22-2010, 12:04 AM

U need to leave her alone and stop trying so hard... And sorry to be blunt but u DONT LOVE HER.. u dint know the first thing about her except what she looks like! love takes a while to develop u cant just fall in love after seeing a single photo!

if i were her i would have reacted in the same way... u need to chill and possible forget about her.. in my opinion u have already scared her off completely!

prdeeboy · #7 (**permalink**) 07-27-2010, 12:04 AM

If your intentions are good then stop stalking her. Dont scare her.
Send her email with your name and say you would like to meet her personally.
Tell her she can come with her friends (Beck she will hesitate to come alone for
safety reasons) and it is good that even you go with friends so there can be good
talks.

Or you can send your mobile no. You cannot keep your identity secret if you
really love her. You have to be a real person .
After sending your mobile no. wait .. even if it takes weeks,months etc
Dont send her any songs now please ..
Girls dint like possessive person . They want their own space.
So send your real name Whit mobile no. and ask her that you would like to
talk with her or ask her to give her mobile no.

Till then dint send her offline messages and email . If there is no reply
then forget her . Make new friends.

garlic_n_wine · #8 (**permalink**) 07-28-2010, 12:04 AM

This is simply not a love problem...There are some basic things you need to know about girls before doing something like this..If you really like her...what you did wont let you get near her at any cause..There are lots of girls on face book...You like her thoughts and her activities,that's nice..just send her a message..if she didn't reply,just move on...dint stalk her..She never like you back...its face book dude...no one really wanted to meet someone on face book..all you gotta do is,find someone else..Better leave her alone..or at least talk as a friend..not like a boyfriend...If you want a girl...don't ever do this...i would say make some friends who are girls and talk to them...that will help you to know about girls..or at least people :P

Pete B · #9 (**permalink**) 08-02-2010, 12:04 AM

A great characters tics of every female is that they like attention of male no matter if they make relation with them or not. Similary, you fall in such trap and that is in virtual relationship.
Where is your manhood lost? Are you not man? A man is those who have full control over his own sense. But, here your sense is controlling you. This girl time pass with you and when she lack interest go offline. She is living her own life. Its better if you stop thinking about her and concentrate on your own studies and building your own career. Once you become stable in your career you will get plenty of such types of females. But, this is your age mistake not yours. This is not love but truly an attraction. This will vanish with time. I am sure you will take some time to overcome these deep emotional feelings. This is an experience, make it your wisdom and do not repeat this type of mistake again. A female think 10 times far than boy and is very clever. A male is really a simple gender. Politics is in the character of female. I don't blame any female here but this is the general mentality of females.
Some females are exceptionally innocent and good no doubt. Brother, get rid of such things which block you in your progress. Reject it like a poison. Read good books. Everything occur for a reason. This occur to grow you from inner. You will certainly understand what is relation and can judge the person easily....

God bless you!