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I love him a lot.. Any advice?
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Old 04-23-2010, 12:05 AM
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I'm sorry its kinda long..
We have been together for 2 years. We are both 16.
There's no one who's made my happier, and no ones who's hurt me as much as he has.
We haven't talked for two weeks now because he is getting into some bad drugs, like sh rooms, and chooses to hang out with his friends to do these drugs instead of me, so i told him how i felt and he just didn't even try to fix things.
Other times when i tried to break our relationship off he would give an effort to fix things, but when drugs come up he just let me go..
I want to text him i miss him so much,
Do you think I'm overreacting or should i stay strong

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Old 04-25-2010, 12:05 AM
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text him! (
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Old 04-26-2010, 12:05 AM
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leave that dumb ass man if he uses drugs! find another one for you!
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Old 04-29-2010, 12:05 AM
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Awwwww you sound so Sweet!!ET_^ <3 you could talk to him about this ) hell deifinitely stay on you )))
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Old 05-03-2010, 12:05 AM
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Stay strong, girl.
He obviously needs help.
Talk to someone.
Something has to be done.
He is taking the wrong road.
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Old 05-08-2010, 12:05 AM
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1) text him.
2) try to get him help to get rid of drugs.
Drugs are so freaking dangerous you should help him quit them.
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Old 05-12-2010, 12:05 AM
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i know how you feel, i liked a guy for 3 years and we dated for ab it, and then we broke up and just stayed friends. recently we had a fight because he led me on and really hurt me. he doesn't try to do anything even though he said he cares.
your not over reacting. and as hard as it is, you have let him go if he is going to be this way. hes not worth it and doesn't deserve you.
3 years of the love of my life being a jerk and i just got it now.
he might change he might not, but i guess you can only give people so many chances.
id try one more time with him and if he doesn't change, i think you should leave him, find someone who really cares and makes an effort.
i hope it works out for you.
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Old 05-16-2010, 12:05 AM
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Hey, i know what its like to be in love with a guy... I dint like giving this sort of advice because I feel like the person I am giving the advice to Will just read past it, but Im going to be completely honest with you...

you can do Wayattyter than this. he obviously does not have his priorities straight. you are so young, and you have a long life ahead of you.... get out there, meet new people, good influences, to get over him. he is not interested in you... his drugs are more important. and he knows how you feel about him....

if you want to make any form of contact with him, make it once more and make it a good one; TELL HIM LIKE IT IS......
"if you are ever interested in being with me, get your life together. get clean. until then, i dont want to be with you. but i will be here whenever you are ready......."

good luck... hope i helped some stay strong.
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Old 05-21-2010, 12:05 AM
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love is a beautiful relation which cant be back every time. In your case i recommend you to try to fix the issue of drugs by discussing with him. box even you try to marry him tomorrow the sufferer will be yours. The most worst thing is DRUGS. For this a man can do anything, like rob, like rape, like kill or any. You cant help then.
Give him much time or take him to a doctor and try to treat him even it is difficult if you love him really. A friend in need is a Friend in deed. Remember it. Try to fix it or then take a decision of leaving him.
problem comes every were, we are the persons who should try to fix them/
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Old 05-22-2010, 12:05 AM
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honestly..i dint think you should be with him. i know you love him but do you really think watching him do so many bad things to himself and being ignored by him would make your own life any better? Its only natural to feel so strongly after dating for so long but i think you need to let him go.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:05 AM
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Stay strong definitely! Ur young still and have a whole life ahead of u..n for him to start doing drugs at a young age is unacceptable. You shouldn't put Ur life on hold for someone who isn't willing to do the same for u..

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