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Okay, so I am in middle school..I'm 14, 8Th grade. I hate being in middle school, mostly because my maturity level is higher than most of the people I know. Therefore, I tend to hang out with older kids. Right now, there is about three guys I'm sure that like me, but i don't like them back because I don't want to date anybody at my school. I think it is overrated. I would rather have a longer relationship. I don't want to be played, it has happened many times....I currently like somebody. He is 16 about to turn 17, he's everything I could have ever asked for. The thing is, we dint get to talk much. Mainly because he is very busy.. we have so much in common, and I am very confused on what to do because I never want to give up on him. Ever. We have the same religious views, maturity level, etc. We are compatible mentally. I honestly dint care about his physical features..even though he is Beautiful in every way to me.. Its actually gotten to the point where I'd give up anything and everything just to be with him and support him and just love him. I cant really think about dating the other guys, I don't know what it is about this one.. I'm just so caught up on him. Can somebody please give me advice on what to do? I'm very confused...there's so much going on in my head. Haha. And please don't tell me I'm too young to be in love, I do not want any smart remarks..I'm only asking for advice, if that's not too much to ask. Thanks.
Screw the other guys (not literally please) and go for what you want. If you feel that strongly, there's no reason you should settle for less. Just keep in mind that even though you feel super-mature now, you're going to feel 10x more mature in 6 or 7 years. Try to think of that woman you'll be then. What would she do?
At first... you shouldn't have this complex on dating guys from your school! It's better so you know them, you can be with them and it's normal to break up and Gert with someone else! That you don't like the boys it's another theme....
You are too young to wanna find your one love and forever! Long relation ships are good but as longer as much er you will broken hearted when it ends! Exept from one day you will have more experience and you will cheat... I don't say you should be a slut and go with many but you should let the thought for a long, forever relation ship go!
Anyway... you in love with this guy and maybe he can fall for you too! Go to talk to him, smile at him and let him know you better and let him understand that you like him!
I'm not sure what you mean by your confused. Do you know if he wants to be with you? It sound to me that you guys are perfect for each other and you are very smart to want a long term relationship cause it's so many people out there nowadays that mess with a lot of different people at the same time and like you said they play women and everything. And they could give you std or something, you just never know. So i think you should be with him if he is good for you and treats you well. It's nice to be with one person only.
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