The idea that love makes life good/bad is also similar to the expression, "seeing the world through rose-colored glasses". People who are happy in love tend to be happy on a general basis, while unhappy lovers bring their drama to work, and no one wants to listen to it, etc.
Here's the deal with love and studying, it's dynamic, because, if you spend all of your time thinking about your loved one, and have trouble hitting the books without thinking about them, then it can become an interference, but if you get enough time with them, and do have the motive to study, then love can bolster it with confidence, and being motivated to succeed, because when you have a good love going on, you have desire to excel because you have more self confidence. That's what happened to me, anyway.
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