Help, there is a coworker who is in love with me and has ask me to marry him.?

sublimedmg · #1 (**permalink**) 07-14-2010, 12:04 PM

The thing is I think something wrong with him. I don't love him. I don't even fave any feeling for him I have told him that but he still coming at me. This has been going on for about two years and is really getting on my nerves. What should i do.

needhelpplz · #2 (**permalink**) 07-15-2010, 12:04 PM

You can go to your HR department and explain to them that he is harassing you. They will take it from there.

preildpale · #3 (**permalink**) 07-16-2010, 12:04 PM

tell him if he doesn't stop stalking you then you'll the cops on him. I guarantee you he'll leave you alone for good.

Disney Mom · #4 (**permalink**) 07-21-2010, 12:04 PM

sue for sexual harassment...but (playing devil's advocate) why did you let it go on for so long? because of his obvious emotional problems, your lack of action only encouraged him

begeeman13 · #5 (**permalink**) 07-22-2010, 12:04 PM

I had the same problem one time. This girl kept on telling me how cute I was while I was working. I do not know why I did not like it. I think that it was probably because it was disrupting my work, But I think that you should let as many people around you know what is going on and tell your supervisor.

Mj-23 · #6 (**permalink**) 07-23-2010, 12:04 PM

Tell him no, and that he needs to stop trying to initiate a romantic relationship with you, because it's not going to happen. If that doesn't work, take the first poster's suggestion and go to HR.