I'm a 16 yr old female student and i think i like/love my female teacher. HELP!?

♥Mrs. MarkDarcy♥ · #1 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 11:16 AM

We are very close, and we talk,laugh and play all the time. She's my friend and i know love her as a friend but sometimes.. like.. i wonder if its a Lil more than that... becks she puts her hand in my hair and we make each other smile. When I'm around her I'm normal, i just see her as a friend, but when we're apart i think about her. I notice that she treats me a Lil different from DA Otha kids too. Also,She is married, but who knows she might be bi-curious/bi-sexual or maybe I'm taking this Thai wrong way

PLEASE HELP ! IM CONFUSED...

PS.. and mum..sumtimes she pretends not to notice me..and another time she's my closest friend
Do these signals mean i like her or she likes me ?

thing55001 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-16-2009, 11:16 AM

well first off if your a student you should wait to try to pursue anything till she doesn't have you in class anymore/ or you turn 18.
she could loose her job and if you love her like you say you do i don't think you would wish that on her.
anyways i would just see maybe its lust or maybe your not sure of your sexuality. if you are then i apologize.
anyways i would try to figure out if shes into you but i would wait until you know she wont lose her job for being with a student if she wants to be with you

puppet7112 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-21-2009, 11:16 AM

Maybe you are both having a girl crush, but knock it off. Jail, loss of family and career are waiting for her. If you truly care for her at all,keep your distance.

Marlene D · #4 (**permalink**) 01-22-2009, 11:16 AM

first its OK to have fantasies

second...stay away from her until your 18, she would get fired, possible jail and never teach again.

but just go solo and enjoy the fantasy until your 18 and see what happens

i dint know if she likes you or not.....dint say anything and ruin a friendship when she may look at just as that. if she like you...she make the move

glo<3 · #5 (**permalink**) 01-25-2009, 11:16 AM

It's probably hard to tell unless she actually puts a obvious move on you.
It's OK to be friends etc. and maybe have innocent hugs but if it gets sexual, be very careful.
Don't let yourselves get into trouble.

prisana · #6 (**permalink**) 01-29-2009, 11:16 AM

no, she doesn't like you that way