what to do about god, love, and your self? im so lost can i have some serious advice?

Johnny Blaze · #1 (**permalink**) 08-14-2010, 03:13 PM

recently me and my girl friend broke up (on the 10Th of this month) and we are the couple that break up n then make up and so on. every time we break up we find a way to make up and even fall deeper in love (or at least i do). we just had an argument this Sunday and everything got out of hand and now i feel like she is not having the same feelings toward me as she used to. and i dint really know what happen actually. i mean...maybe its the aftermath of the argument (some how she maybe still mad at me cause...i called her a bitch but not on purpose. i apologized and she accepted and so on). but...tonight i called her and told her how much i love her (like i usually do to keep her love for me going), and i told her that i think we need a few weeks apart. I'm at a cross roads right now i have no clue what to do. i dint know what to say, all i know is that i need her back. IM GOING CRAZY WITHOUT HER...she's my everything. Ive been praying to god to please bring us back together...and i have no clue what to do. tell me something that i need to gain my her back.
tell me how to gain a relationship with god. I'm so...just in need of him. it feels like sometimes he's no where around. i dint want that christian church stuff though. i know about all that Ive tried that. but..please just give me TRUE WORDS OF WISDOM. please...you guys will be a huge help

and never mind if i sound sort of dramatic. thank you all

Mr A · #2 (**permalink**) 08-16-2010, 03:13 PM

You recall your past memories in the form of quiz and ask whether she liked, loved or ignored all those moments u spent together. The past memories may bring some excitement into her heart and she may respond back. Try the trick.

Brigette K · #3 (**permalink**) 08-19-2010, 03:13 PM

You have to try harder to bring her back and find out what is responsible for the break ups, then talk about those issues and avoid them.

inluv4now567 · #4 (**permalink**) 08-24-2010, 03:13 PM

Your relationship sounds like a recipe for disaster. Why do you keep arguing? What do you get out of being nasty to each other? Being in love is supposed to make you happy but you spend your time agonizing and, frankly, enjoying the agony. At some point, she is going to get tired of all this and want a reasonable and happy relationship and you won't be the one she wants it with.
God is not an agony aunt. A relationship with God is long term and needs work. If you don't like Christianity, then choose another religion, but the answer is still the same.