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I was with a woman for over 7 years and I thought everything was going great. I was even picking rings out and I was so happy. We lived together for the last 3 years of our relationship. I gave everything I could to this woman, and I'm not just talking about money either. I was extremely careful not to get her pregnant because we were going to wait until she finished school. I threw her out April 1st because I found out she cheated on me. We been broken up now exactly 4 months. We talked a couple of times during all of this. And she always said things like I know we'll be together again, and she said she just wanted to make sure I was the one she wanted for the rest of her life.The last time we spoke she tells me she's pregnant with this other guys baby, and that she wished it was mine and she made a terrible mistake leaving me. I told her I couldn't take her back with this other guy's baby, I said it would have been different if when If when we met you had a baby, I still would have loved you the same and I would have stepped up and raised your child just like it was my own. I'm 31 and this has been my only true love. I cry myself to sleep everynight still, and it's been 4 months. I feel like so less of a man, because within 4 months this guy has stolen my girlfriend, had unprotected sex with her, got her pregnant, and is looking for houses now. How do I get over her, everybody tells me there are plenty of fish in the sea and blah blah blah is all I hear. Now everytime a woman is interested in me all I think about is she'll cheat, and I know I shouldn't be this way, but I was faithful for 7 years and this isn't the first time she cheated but I forgave her. But this is final and I know it so why am I so obsessed with her. And she seems like she dosen't even care about what she did. I could go on and on but that's the basics of what happened, so if anybody has any good advice I'd love to hear it. Thanks
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife, so from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.You have to get back out there and find someone who appreciates you. She made her bed, stop talking to her (change your number if you have to) and start healing and dating.Don't worry, be happy.
well i am just going to be perfectly honest. you sound like a great man but after this you will probably change. you will become bitter towards woman and probably never trust anyone completely again. it's just life, theres nothing you can do about. the only advice i can give you is go have fun right now, go out with friends and try not to worry your self sick over her. the pain will not go away for a very long time and you will always remember it. just mope around for awhile and eventually start going out again. and DO NOT call her or accept her calls if she calls you. this is bad for me to say but consider her dead, like she no longer exist. sorry for your loss.... now call a friend and go have a drink.
i agree with Bill C. studies have shown that if you marry a beautiful woman, then she'll think of herself as'higher'than you. she may not actually show it, but subconsciously she'll have the guts to do the unfaithful deeds that no man wants.so marry a girl that you like that's not that hot. you'll still be faithful to her and she'll not have the guts to do anything bad because she'll think that you're the hot one of the two.
that is hard to take m8,7 years is a long time,i was gon wif my girl 9months we broke up bout 3wks ago and its killing me,i dont kno wat to do myself,try and do stuff wif ur m8s,go out,and take sumthing up football or sumthing,just try and think off sumthing else,i kno its hard,ive been tryn myself and cant,stay away from the girl it helps!!and stay away from the drink!!
you know you sound like a wonderful guy but you should think like this she doesnt respect herself enough to ahve sex with someone unprotected wit aids out there you know it gonna be very hard to get over her so just remeber that people will use you just dont keep on doing what it is youre doing to get used butknow this what goes around comes around she will have to answer for what she did to you but my kids dad cheated on me too and had a baby wit someone else too i was very angry for a while but i notice that i was the only one mad they were so called happy together so i moved away and meet a great guy and were married now and hes raising my kids i know it will happen for you just try to change how you feel everyone aint like that god will send you a sole mate cuz you are faithful man and she wont cheat keep youre head up and dont let her see you sweat f- her she lose the best thing she had
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