This married woman and I are bound together for our LOVE of dogs, can you give me some advice?

brandi33 · #1 (**permalink**) 05-16-2010, 04:44 PM

Before you judge me, note that my girlfriend Andrea is married to a man who cheats on her and pretends not to care about her. They are currently living apart but they didn't file for divorce yet. No kids. But they both alternate between taking care of that rottweiler that is bonded to both of them. First thing's first I'm the type of man who likes to please all the women. I'm not a heart throb by any means, I weigh 285 pounds and ugly as can be. HOWEVER, I stay neatly dressed, smelling good and carrying myself with confidence. I'm not gay but Andrea's husband(based on the picture she showed me) is a handsome dude and he's in good shape. Still and all, the love I make with Andrea is incredible and she says I help her reach a climax that her husband can't make her reach. Now, I recently adopted a golden-retriever, Andrea's favorite breed. I love her and I'd like to give the dog to her. How can I put my foot down and tell her "What's it going to be, HIM or ME"?

She and I can buy an opposite sex golden retriever and discuss a future together as dog breeders(something she always dreamed of being but her husband only has the patience for one dog). Life with me can make her the envy of all dog breeders. Her husband's a wimp and he's messing around with other women, not supporting her dreams. Andrea could be breeding dogs AND breeding babies with me while her husband masturbates. But in all seriousness, I'm willing to put my "player" ways aside to give this woman a good life, the support she needs and the love she deserves. How do I go about this?

Cappucino · #2 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 04:44 PM

sorry this has nothing to do with pets it in the wrong category. Just because you mentioned a dog its still a relationship issue not a pet issue

frank_rivera209 · #3 (**permalink**) 05-21-2010, 04:44 PM

Only she and her husband can answer your question in another YA category.

csiders30 · #4 (**permalink**) 05-25-2010, 04:44 PM

Wow.

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jltcannonball · #5 (**permalink**) 05-27-2010, 04:44 PM

You adopted a dog and want to use it for future breeding..... yeah you have no clue!

and as for her husband is cheating?? Shes not exactly mother Theresa now is she!

bandc · #6 (**permalink**) 05-30-2010, 04:44 PM

OK, so let me get this straight. Her Husband is cheating on her, right? What in the heck do you think she is doing? The same, with YOU. So, she will also cheat on YOU. Forget about breeding dogs and concentrate on being normal. You may want to post this in a different section, and you sure as heck don't need to post the details of your sex life in the dog section for all the 12 year ODs to read.