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Old 01-02-2009, 04:33 PM
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Okay so i have this boyfriend, i know he loves me more then i love him....don't get me wrong i love him alto but shh...anyways my question is how come when we break up i cant stop thinking about him and i cant stop thinking about how much i love him etc, but when were together all i think about is how i wanna be single...why is that??

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Old 01-07-2009, 04:33 PM
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because you love him and you have feelings but then you go from having space to being to close to breath if you know what a mean, you gotta ease itself into it, best of luck
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Old 01-10-2009, 04:33 PM
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You are not mature enough for a serious relationship.. You need to grow up and figure out what you want from life..
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Old 01-14-2009, 04:33 PM
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Because you are young and stupid as hell. He should do himself a favor and leave your ass quick.
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:33 PM
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I have felt the same way, maybe your just longing to be in a relationship when your not and your lonely, and when your in a relationship you get used to it and take advantage of it. It's like you don't know what you have till it's gone but then you keep getting it back again then you don't feel like you want a relationship, I know it's complicated, and well...that's life.
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Old 01-17-2009, 04:33 PM
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Because you take him for granted during the relationship, and miss him when he is gone.
Try creating some space between you two.
Like see each other 1-2 times a week.
Maybe you'll appreciate him more when you don't see him as much.
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Old 01-18-2009, 04:33 PM
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You're just not ready to commit to him. You're unhappy when you're together, so this isn't right for you. To avoid hurting him, stay away from him. In time you'll figure out what you really want. Hopefully it won't be too late to let an awesome guy go.
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Old 01-21-2009, 04:33 PM
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because you got so use to being together that when y'all break up you have to have him by your side
its normal maybe if You guys are together try not to hang out some much CZ that just messes up everything
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Old 01-22-2009, 04:33 PM
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Because when you know that you are free and single, you might start to miss being in a relationship, you might start to miss how a guy tells you that he loves you and how he hugs and kisses you and you sometimes wish that you could have the best relationship ever..but when you are with him you feel like you still like him but you still want a chance to flirt and look at other guys and rate them or whatever but i don't know if that is how you might feel but alto of other people might feel like that so yeah i am glad that i could help
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Old 01-26-2009, 04:33 PM
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because he was probLyuffacting u (metaphorically) but now you have room and you dont know what to do with it, so subconciously your brain wants the lack of space back wich is why you think of him
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Old 01-30-2009, 04:33 PM
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Hey love- I know exactly what you are feeling because I have felt it so much before. Most people are going to say "you always want what you cant have" or "you never know what you have until its gone", and yes that is part of is, but it is much deeper than that

you have to conflicting sides, the one that wants to be single and the one that cannot imagine being without him. When you are with him, you want to be single probably because you are bored and want some time to be "free". But then when you are away from him you probably feel vulnerable. IDK how long you have been together, but it is HARD to stop being with someone that you have had in your life for so long. Even if you know its right to move on, it takes a lot of strength to adjust to a new lifestyle. You also probably have a fear of him being with someone else.. that keeps a lot of people in relationships. Here is my advice to you
move on. IDK how old you are, but you deserve to be with someone that you have NO DOUBT about.... be strong- its gonna take time and it wont be easy, but it will get EASIER. The thing is, if its meant to be, it will be, but you need to give yourself some serious time to figure out what YOU want... and in serious time i mean at least 3-6 months away from him. If he dates other girls, its okay... because like i said if its meant to be it will be. Spend this time to better yourself, and figure out what you want, need, like to do and deserve. after this time you will have a clearer mind to make the best choice for you.

Good luck honey!
(also this song is a great one for your situation. ID if u like country (i dint at all) but i love this one song, its an exception Lil- Starts With Goodbye Carrie Underwood
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Old 01-31-2009, 04:33 PM
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its only human. the human brain always wants what they dint have and when they do have it, they just take it for granted and wanted something more. either that or you just discovered that there are pros and cons to being in a relationship with someone.

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