My heart is very emotional about girls and LOVE..how to handle all this without hurting my heart ??PLEASE HELP?

avoid it....>.> I'm going through a breakup right now and i really don't even want my heart i feel like throwing it in the trash CD but yea... don't throw it out there until you're a 100% sure that someone is going to catch it =)

so don't use your heart ;-) just give to other which may need it.

its normal/usual for every male,in some it is more & some it is less..that the reason y at all marketing places WOMEN are dominating....see what's Ur age...??& were u in a relationship real emotional or just TIME PASS ???
see its common from males at young age..u just learn by Ur experiences,but nobody can tell which or after how many emotional BREAK UP u will learn....
BUT do Pl remember all(maximum males) r sailing in the same boat,but who learns it to ADP to it FAST , will be MORE successful...
BYE...BEST OF LUCK my friend....
I DR.SACHIN THAKAR from MUMBAI==9820954227

Henceforth remember heart has nothing to do with love,it is a pump running non stop to keep you alive,your mind which keep on sending signal to get hurt for no reason,try to control it.Admiral

You need to know the facts about love and emotions, wisdom will free you from pain a bit. The fact is that till you find the one for you, you may be going through a series of relationships which should help you to learn from them, if you are lucky like some, you may just find the one right away; and even then there may be ups and downs in the relationship, so know this beforehand, that along with the roses come the thorns and learn to desensitize yourself everyday.
If you are unable to do this by yourself. You should go for meditation and Oriya yoga and regression therapy or eternity process, hypnotherapy. All this will help you to center you, strengthen you, calm your nerves, your mind and emotions, so the pain will be less, and service or volunteering for the humanity(in your case, for couples) will also help you.

( More about the yoga: )
--Sudharshan Oriya yoga is a very powerful technique, uses simple postures and deals with ones breathing, helps to get rid of past negative impressions(our perceptions,perspectives, misconceptions,false beliefs & notions of self & situations, terrible or traumatic experiences) turbulence, negative emotions(fear,pain,distrust, hate,anger,frustration,stress,sadness / depression etc etc) of the mind slowly. It helps to refresh, renew the body and mind discarding the garbage of the mind.
Has helped many patients with relationship issues,lifestyles, career issues,mental illnesses,physical problems etc.etc.
It is so powerful that it has been used in soldiers, war victims,police officers(since they have seen and experienced traumatic events) and even prisoners to bring them back from their destructive minds to norm. Lot of research has been done by scientists and doctors and has been recommended by many of them. It is ever-growing world-wide.
Also try the meditation and eternity process course( the negative impressions of the subconscious mind are slowly removed after the body and conscious mind completely relaxed).
Find a center near you and speak to a teacher.
http://us.artofliving.org/
http://us.artofliving.org/content-sudarshan-kriya?center=usa
http://www.aolresearch.org/index.html

--( important)
There is a spiritual side to love & marriage as well.Do browse Thur this and follow.
http://sites.google.com/site/drskyloveandmarriage

--Regression therapy.(similar to eternity process)
http://www.brianweiss.com/
Dr. Brian Weiss is a regression therapist, find someone similar. Regression therapy has healed many problems from asthma, to phobias to relationship issues & emotional problems, etc.
Read Dr. Weiss's books about soul mates.
(Only some psychiatrists do regression therapy)

Read the book:
Love will find you: 9 magnets to bring you and your soul mate together
By Kathryn Alice

--HTTP://thesecret.tv/index.html
Read the book, The SECRET(part about winning relationships)

Read the book: Psycho-cybernetics:
by Dr. Maxwell Maltz (it is about discovering the success mechanism in you).
go to www.simonsays.com

Good luck