i love my ex help? how do i get back with him?

flowergirl786786 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-24-2010, 06:23 PM

i was with my ex a year and a half and iv been separated for half a year i am 15 and 16 in 2 months..
i love my ex with my heart and soul he is everything I'm very grown up but ab it mentally ill which drove him away and we had are few fool outs i want him back i spoke to him and he don't really make sense i said :

Adam i still love you do you love me ?5:02pm Look.. I don't know... I mean.
I used to.

but then later he says

I miss you. I know I shouldn't but I do. Maybe it's just the way you're always there. In the back of my head..

and he said that randomly when we was talking about suicide ..( yes very grim)

and i said love you i WI you'd let me try again with you ? because iv grown up a lot i know I'm unreasonable
sometimes
but I'm getting
fixed
I'm going to have hypnoses
:/

then he said ...I couldn't. I could never bring myself to do that again..
and i asked why and he told me this : I'm sorry, but I practically destroyed your life last time.. And I can't look at you anymore because of what I've done.. I'm sorry. I just can't..

i cant tell if he loves me if i can save us hes my soul mate my first lover how am i meant to know how he feels he really confuses me ?
dose he want me to go away should i speak to him in person ?
what do you think he feels :S help

mdquince1 · #2 (**permalink**) 06-26-2010, 06:23 PM

Boyfriend at 13? Really? Where are your parents? No wonder there are so many teen girls pregnant around. Grow up and then get a boyfriend.

Ashley M · #3 (**permalink**) 06-27-2010, 06:23 PM

Lil

Moondog · #4 (**permalink**) 07-02-2010, 06:23 PM

He misses you,ask him out.
I miss my ex too but I'm the mentally ill one -.-

Sandra C · #5 (**permalink**) 07-05-2010, 06:23 PM

outsetsRF

jcgunnern1 · #6 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 06:23 PM

girl i not know boys are stupid. You should Gerta better man doesn't sound like he is into you, but you may try talking to him in person, that always helps

How this helps

hotchikdancer · #7 (**permalink**) 07-11-2010, 06:23 PM

I'm having a hard time following it, perhaps if you messaged or emailed me the parts Ur trying to explain, i could help you better, am in the same boat =)

✰ Rob ✰ · #8 (**permalink**) 07-12-2010, 06:23 PM

I'm 13 to and my boyfriend of a year and half left me :| .. we both still love each other but ht ink its best if we go our separate ways , show him you dint care

you can do better if hes not going to tell you he loves you :*

Teletubbies rock · #9 (**permalink**) 07-16-2010, 06:23 PM

you should make your details more easy to understand, then maybe more people would help you.
ah, sounds like he misses you, but doesn't wanna hurt you. ID man.

DarkSeid · #10 (**permalink**) 07-20-2010, 06:23 PM

Yeah I have to agree with Ryan.talk to him in person.It takes awhile for you to get over a guy. So just try to focus on something else. find someone else but please be careful who you choose!