losing the love feeling when your not with her </3 ? please help me :(?

hey man 123 · #1 (**permalink**) 04-26-2010, 04:37 PM

so Ive been talking to this girl for around 2months or so and she is simply amazing i would love to be with her but when I'm not with her it feels like i don't love her and have no feelings for her , and it really annoys me because i love the feelings i have when I'm around her and when i go home at the end of the day it all fades away and i don't really have time to be with her and sometimes i just cant be bothered meeting her because i don't really miss her

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Blasian · #2 (**permalink**) 04-30-2010, 04:37 PM

I had the same problem. I just had to break up with her because I couldn't bear to be with someone I didn't love.

Danika · #3 (**permalink**) 05-05-2010, 04:37 PM

Just remind yourself how amazing and special she is to you, think about times you've spent with her, take pictures of both of you together and put them up, have something that reminds you how much you love being with her

Big Bully · #4 (**permalink**) 05-10-2010, 04:37 PM

To me it sounds like you're confused. You don't know if you actually like her because maybe you're embarrassed by her? Maybe you're friends or family don't approve?I would figure out what you really want before you lead her on, because that would be mean ha ha. If you love it when you're with her then you shouldn't be insecure about it when you're not with her. Its something you need to decide for yourself. Good luck