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I'm in love with someone.
but he's 33 and I'm 14 !!!
He doesn't know me but I have his ID and his blog address
I really love him!
WHAT CAN I DO???
I'm sure it isn't a passing phase.
I just wanna be his friend.
HELP ME PLEASE!
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sry for my poor English!
i have experienced something similar to what you are right now bella. i never said anything to my best friend about my feelings for fear of being rejected. after about 4 years of being best friends, she finally broke down and said something to me about her feelings for me. everything came to fruition on it's own. she was totally scared to admit it. in tears when she finally did. she was just as scared as i was. but after she admitted her feelings and i told her i had been feeling the same way for a while everything was fine. we ended up moving in together and being insanely crazy for one another since. that was 3 years ago. we've separated since, but we still are best friends and love each other just as much as we did before.
i occasionally make it a point to thank her for having the courage to say what she was feeling. and i mean it.
so, if you want my advice...say something. if your friendship is strong enough, it will survive. rejection it terribly scary, i know, but the possibility of freedom from this secret and the joys and pains of the relationship (and there will be many of both) are well worth the few minutes of vulnerability to express your feelings. i promise. don't regret not saying anything.
i still miss her, but know that we are better off apart as friends. but we wouldn't have known if she hadn't said anything, and i would have missed out.