What love advice can you give a guy who..........?
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What love advice can you give a guy who..........?
What love advice can you give a guy who has had virtually every piece of advice thrown his way, but doesn't think any of that advice will work because of his own bad experiences with that advice?EXAMPLE:"Trust me, the ladies LOVE blah-blah-blah.""I DO blah-blah-blah, but that doesn't work because bliggedy-blaggedy-bloo."Some folks in here are asking for a bit more clarification. Some of the answers in here are exactly what I'm talking about. Some tell me that I should just be myself, but I fear that being myself is a big part of the problem. There's no denying that I am a strange and unusual individual, and if I show the world that I enjoy being who and what I am, the world (in theory) will appreciate it and like it as much as I. Trial and error shows that that is just not the case at all.Girls DON'T meet me. I'm FORCED to do all the work if I want anything to even possibly happen.I DO observe men and women interracting with each other, and apart from acting like a lecherous @sshole (which seems to be the #1 attraction component with women), I can't determine what I'm doing different from them."If you hit on 10 chics today, one will go for you."No they won't. I've asked out so many women (friends AND complete strangers) and not one of them worked out. (See what I mean? A piece of advice is given to me, and personal experience tells me that this advice can't work.)"Hide your weird side until she starts falling for you."So put up a front? DON'T be myself?"I am not saying do not hit on the fine chics but dont disregard the ones that are the female equivalent (looks wise) of you."From what I've seen, even the REMOTELY attractive women are all taken/uninterested.
hmmm....if you dont want advice continue doing what you are doing, which I guess is listening to yourself. And I can only come to the conclusion that is why you are where you are right now.
Just be yourself. That is not something that takes skill, just keep you cool. If she is not interested in you when you are yourself, why would you want her interested in you at all. You would have to be pretending all the time.JUST BE YOURSELF!