I need love advice from a women?

ilovesos · #1 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 04:26 PM

I need love advice from a women?K check this out. my bff and i were crushin on this one guy for like 6 months. we werent jealous or ne thing but newayz my bff and this guy started going out . they dated for about 3 months and he dumped her. well she was hurt bad for a while but then got over it (shes hot so she got a new guy in like 3 days). but newayz i spend a lot of time with this guy cause we do all the same stuff and attend the same church. i kinda like this guy now, or again. am i wrong for this?? should i tell my bff or hide my feelings?? SOS PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME!!

R*A*N*D*O*M* · #2 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 02:51 AM

No, it isn't wrong...it can't be controlled. I think maybe you should have a heart to heart with your friend and see how she feels about this, because even if she acts like she is over him, she might not be...and just remember: Boys come and go, but friends are forever.

SingGirl · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 02:37 PM

When it comes to boyfriend-girlfriend relationship you don't hide feelings. Its best you follow your heart. Don't hurt yourself and try not to hurt others'feelings. Speak your mind and move on from there!

gina k cool · #4 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 07:58 AM

tell bff. if she says u shouldnt go out with him tell her u jsut want to try it and if u get dumped u say that we live and we learn. jsut b sure u liek this guy enoguh to get in a fight with ur bfff.

Toxic Lette · #5 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 04:18 PM

Well think about it in reverse i mean if some guy broke your heart how would you feel if one of the people you trusted most in the world started dating him...and don't forget he could do the same to you is he really worth risking a friendship over?

Lyn · #6 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 07:11 PM

Go ahead and go out with him if he asks you. No harm with that.

The Great Beyond · #7 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 08:49 PM

I think it's fine, just talk to your friend about it. If she's over him, she probably won't have a problem with it. If he was a jerk though, she might might not like the idea.

jerumaya2007 · #8 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 06:00 PM

no, you are not wrong. you are just follwing your heart.if you guys are truly bff you got to be able to tell.be brave!!! you got to be expecting some kind ofhurt when you want to like someone.

mc_candless · #9 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 10:56 AM

I think you should tell your friend. If she is hot and she knows it then she wont care, or atleast she shouldnt care.

Mohay3 · #10 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 06:58 PM

Tell her. See how she feels about it. I wouldnt let this guy come between me and my best friend though.

Robert M · #11 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 03:37 AM

Be a Nun and take the vow of chastity. Your hormones are working overtime.

Lin L · #12 (**permalink**) 02-17-2009, 10:48 PM

in my opinion, liking this guy again doesnt make you a bad person. he doesnt sound like a jerk. if it didnt work out between him and your friend, its probably because there was not much substance in their relationship. you mentioned she's hot. so that could've have been a big reason why he set her eyes on her instead of you. i think you should definately tell your friend how your feeling. im sure she will understand. after all, you said that you both had liked him at the beginning, and even though you didnt clarify, im guessing that she knew that you liked him too. and she still went out with him. so tell her about it. and continue hanging out with the guy and see where things lead. hope it works out.