A serious question: Is it possible to get a guy to fall in love with you?

Girl with a wish:-) · #1 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 04:58 AM

Say you are already in love with him and he's a good friend. You know he likes you but its long distance as you moved away for your job. Is there any way to make him fall for you? He told you he will visit you....but you're rarely there due to the fact that you travel a lot! So its sort of on the'never never'. Still you are really into him. What can you do to influence his feelings?

vinster82 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 01:25 PM

You shouldn't influence his feelings. If it's to be it will just happen.

Deedee · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 01:12 AM

tell him how you feel and come up with a compromise.

White lighting · #4 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 03:01 AM

Just be yourself.

lupita v · #5 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 10:34 AM

write him a letter and be your sweet self.

justme24202 · #6 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 03:16 PM

dont.dont.dont.you cannot make someone love you, you cannot change someones feelings, and u shouldnt try to.you need to find someone that loves you all by themselves. dont force love---it will come to you, i promise

simplesimon · #7 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 05:06 PM

Move closer.....long distance relationships are difficult.