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Old 12-26-2008, 09:25 AM
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I can't get my wife out of my heart. Even tho I know I can not live with her in her present state of mind, I miss her. We've been at odds for 4yrs, separated for 2yrs,&now divorced for 2mos. I have tried to find solace with a couple of women I cared about, but was not in love with. We were married for 33yrs&I don't like living alone(she left me). The confusion I experience, not being able to let her go is devastating at times. I have the ability to move out of state with family if need be, but I have my grown children near both of us now. I know I'd miss them. Some timely advice is needed.

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Old 12-27-2008, 03:18 PM
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Why not try to talk things out with her?
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Old 12-28-2008, 04:02 AM
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Seems like a case of not realizing what you had until it is gone. It is not surprising you still miss her since you were married 33 years. You need to give yourself time to mend.
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Old 01-04-2009, 02:54 AM
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You had a very long relationship, so it is normal to feel lost without her. You have spent almost all of your adult life with her, so why do you expect that it will just go away suddenly? It won't. It's okay to grieve the loss of your relationship...you would have felt the same if it were a physical loss, so allow yourself to go through this phase, but don't dwell on it.Fill your time with friends, family, and hobbies. When you least expect it, you will find another love.If you still want to continue some type of relationship with your ex, leave it as friends only.
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Old 01-19-2009, 03:00 AM
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goodness go to a bar and find a girl who love u 4 u
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Old 02-02-2009, 10:10 AM
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umm well u r in love with her...u prolly liked the craziness side of her...ummu should prolly tlk to ur kids about u moving away first and then decide...and yea i know it wasnt something everyone wants to hear on mels answer but its the truth

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