Love advice? What to do?

Ok, my neigbor and me were dating for 4 to 5 months until we broke up, but during these months I fell in love with her. Now, for the past couple of months we've been doing the same stuff we were doing. (bf-gf stuff) I feel as if she's using me as a friend with benifits. She can't date me she tells me. I can't help loving her and I just can't stay away from her.I need some advice!I've tried everything to get her outta my head.Two weeks ago her best friend moved. She was devistated. She told me she relized she really, really liked him. I was there for all the crying... He moved back Sunday night and now she's all over him. (and they're about to date) Lastnight, we kissed and I don't know what to do.- Hopeless Love

Awwww :-) That is so sweet, but such a tricky situation. There's really not much YOU can do, is there? I mean, she knows you love her, right? And it does seem that she is using you...I would talk to her. Tell her you don't want to sneak around like this if you aren't official, especially since she might ask this other guy out, you definitely don't wanna be kissing and stuff...not a good idea. I would tell her again how you feel, and ask her where she wants to take this, but it's either friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend, not her potential boyfriend and you being the friend with benefits. That's not right for etiher of you guys. Don't be too desperate. Have her make her desicion and live with it. You will probably be together sometime in the future. Until then, find a girl who loves you too, and find comfort in knowing you are a great friend. Good Luck :-)!