There is only 1 question - do you love him/her.Love is almost always mistaken for affection. People say"I love you"but mean"I really like to be around you".Love is a deep and unbreakable bond between 2 people. When you are able to say (truthfully) something like"I am ready to give up my limbs, my life or anything else that is important to me (including letting the person go free) because I love this person", that is when you are trully in love.There is only 1 definition of love. There is no passionate love or romantic love or family love. There is only 1 love. The love where you are willing to sacrifice anything of yours to ensure the safety and happiness of another person.