How should i prepare my parents for a love marrige which is intercaste?please help .?

yas m · #1 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 11:52 AM

everything abut boy is fine,he is well educated n posses all the good qualities that he shul have . we love each other a lot. but parents r not ready.but i need a right way to make them ready plz suggest?

jagannath_kr · #2 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 10:06 PM

Specify the castes.There must be some reason for your parents non-acceptance.But if it is in India, except Muslim, anybody can marry anybody, if the boy is 21 years and girl is 18 years of age.If you want marry a boy or a girl of Muslims, you have to convert to their religion.

pavan061 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 02:27 PM

you cannot have both of them together atleast for now.The coming years belong to your life and you should make the decisions.So decide any one of them ie parents or love.If you can mail me i give you ids of few of those who have met the same situation

roshuna · #4 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 03:29 AM

it seems when parents r not ready means they r afraid for u , they know u from ur child hood they know ur weakness es and so they r not ready so in such case u should follow waut ur parents advice .

Ramasubramanian A · #5 (**permalink**) 01-23-2009, 01:20 PM

The details are insufficient. How old are you and him? While in love, all lovers seem good. How long have you been understanding each other? How serious both of you are and what castes that your parents will object? See, you should remember parents always have the well being of their children in mind and they will not stand in the way if the need is genuine. Take them into confidence and try to convince them if you are really serious and not just infatuated only at the moment. Is it not better to start a family with the blessings of the parents? Don’t try any short cuts!