Love questions, the complicated subject. Part 2?

Curtis C · #1 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 08:26 PM

You guys can post your answers here, thank you so much. Ok...I think most of the time, she is seeing someone else besides me, she doesnt love me like she says, I mean Im a good guy and caring and all, but I think there is somoone for her besides me...that will love her like I do....But I try to push her away at times...I will ignore her texts, not answer her calls, and go sometimes a whole day without any contact with her, she is on my mind but I fight the feeling that I need to talk to her..Why do I do this? I think negative thoughts all the time...Here are the questions....1) Why do I think she is to young?2) Why do I feel I shouldnt get any closer and Push her away?3) Why do I feel I should leave before she leaves me or does soemthing that would hurt me (Ive never had a broken heart)I need help! *laughs at this* I mean really what is with me....Please have a answer.....I need one...Ive been wanting to post this for awhile...Thanks so much you guys helped a whole lot....I think I know what I'm going to do....

Tea L · #2 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 07:45 PM

U are scared of getting hurt so that why u are acting like this. But please do her a favor and dont ignore her all day, I hate it and it really hurts when a man or a woman does it.

victory.singh · #3 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 07:36 AM

ur really very careful person bt ppl in lov dnt giv a damn 2 all dis jst tk a risk coz i really feel u like her n may b she also has d same feelingbest of luck

Jodie S · #4 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 08:36 PM

yes..its because you dont want to get hurt..and you do love her so dont egnore her because she must want to talk to you if she send;s you text so just reply!! and if you go before her she will think that you dont want to be with her and so onn..good look

Drama Queen · #5 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 09:05 PM

1)well if she is too young then you should leave her alone.2)if you know you are not the right one then you need to leave her alone before you get too attached to her3)you should leave her because its not right for you to have a broken heart and your not even the right onejust some advice hope i helped

*The New Girl* · #6 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 05:20 PM

Well, long distance relationships aren't easy...and like you said, she's"anti-social"so why are you putting it in your head that she's fooling around with other boys? 2 years? Big difference? HA! My parents are 13 years apart buddy, and...I think in love?1)So maybe you feel 2 years is a big difference, if so, then just make sure to take it slower and be careful with what you say on the phone and wait for the"I love you"s and such.2)Maybe it's just the distance and you haven't seen her in a while and that makes you a bit uncomfortable to be"loving"somebody you can't see.3)Not all relationships last forever, ya know! Sometimes they're just phases, other times they break apart because the people *grow apart* So don't be scared, enjoy her while you can! And if she leaves you, it's because of the distance and she wants to have somebody who will BE there for you when you need a hug or someone to talk to face to face at the park during those rough patches--if she was leaving you--it would be good for you, because then, you could do more and find out that there are more penguins on the ice burg!So there are my answers, in order, just like your questions! Hope you have a marve---terrific day! (I dunno how to spell mar-vu-lous!)Best of luck to you and your sweet heart,Angel.

Rebecca W · #7 (**permalink**) 01-16-2009, 06:20 PM

You are walking a path that people in there 30's and 40's have a hard time dealing with. Long distance relationships are extremely difficult and rarely work. That has nothing to do with age but just with basic human nature. It is hard to need a hug and get a text instead!She at 15 needs even more immediate interaction than someone older. If what you have written of her life is true (and I don't doubt it) she has a lot of things she is going to have to work through. And you are too far away to help her. So step back, but to it properly. Don't just ignore her, offer to remain her friend, keep talking to her just a little less often.It is the time in your life where you need to be focusing on your future not on anothers problems, but I admire you for trying to make this work. You at 17 are already showing your self to be a good man.