I need love Advice. Please.?

Shug · #1 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 12:32 AM

Does anybody think that it is werid for a teenager to want a serious realtionship? I don't want to date somebody for like a week or a month.I want somebody that really understands me and respects me. What is the age that boys feel this too? Am I to young to have this? I need some advice on love! PLEASE!I am not talking about having sex.

amanda p · #2 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 11:26 AM

well if ur liek 13 i would say it's kind of awkward but i understand u because i'm 13 too and i sort of have fantasies about my life and i guess it's not bad to have a serious relationship ..but if u decide to have sex at 13 ii would say bad ideaat 16 yeah it's ok

randmthots · #3 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 04:15 AM

No, it's not weird. When it comes to relationships, a lot of times girls want something more lasting. They want someone that makes them feel special and like there is no one else as special as they are. So, it's not weird. Guys usually don't feel this way until they are older. As for what age, it depends on the person, really. Some realize it at a younger age than others. Some, it takes until they are in their 50s or 60s. But guys can feel this way when they are 16 or 17. For girls, it can be as young as 14. There's so many things which can decide this, such as having older sisters, or how they grew up, or having been hurt before.