Need love advice about gf?

chaosisaar0n · #1 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 11:27 AM

Me and my girlfriend have been togeither for a year today, and well, the love has faded or the lust, whatever you want to call it and it's been gone for awhile, has anyone felt nothing for awhile and then it came back? I need something to hope on, any advice besides do things that we did in the past? I would like to be more in love with my girlfriend,instead of feeling nothing, One of the reasons i feel this way is because we've been fighting a lot and i'm obsessive compulsive, I would obsess on all my feeling for her, but now i dont feel very much

,I dont want to be this way, I plan to buy her roses tommorow when i go pick her up, and a movie she likes, Take her to a restraunt she enjoys, and i dont know what from there, i hope things get rekindled, but if they dont, should we go on a break? in your opinions? Thanks for the advice that is given

LovableLynne · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 05:07 PM

if you guys are getting bored with each other, then maybe you aren't meant to be together. i know that sounds impossible seeing as you have been together for a year, but maybe you guys are just supposed to be good friends.perhaps you should take a break and see if you find yourself missing her. or maybe just break up with her completely and look for someone who is going to make you feel energized and excited all the time.if you'd rather stay with her, then maybe you should discuss this with her and see what she thinks. maybe she's changed and you haven't noticed it. or maybe you've changed. you never know.good luck!

José Ferreira · #3 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 07:21 AM

Tell her, that you'll change.Then, you have to really change and show her that you can't fail this time!it's fault, don't forget...

pOOhPhAT · #4 (**permalink**) 01-08-2009, 04:26 PM

ur idea is great but if it doesnt work out then u guys should break up cos nothing can be done.