Need love advice!!!!!!?

chaosisaar0n · #1 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 05:56 PM

Me and my girlfriend have been togeither for a year tommorow, and well, the love has faded or the lust, whatever you want to call it and it's been gone for awhile, has anyone felt nothing for awhile and then it came back? I need something to hope on, any advice besides do things that we did in the past? I would like to be more in love with my girlfriend,instead of feeling nothing, One of the reasons i feel this way is because we've been fighting a lot and i'm obsessive compulsive, I would obsess on all my feeling for her, but now i dont feel very much

, Thanks for the advice

karebear · #2 (**permalink**) 01-17-2009, 08:10 PM

communication is very vital.. but here is what i think... retorical questions to ask yourself... have you tried buying lingirie for her? when was the last time you had spontanious sex?also... when was the last time you two went and did something you both enjoyed.. and had a blast? if you cant answer any of these questions then you need to try them.. If you are doing these things and still feel nothing then you dont really love her and its not fair to her to keep her in that kind of relationship. Good luck!

George F · #3 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 07:50 AM

Love is a feeling...if it faded your best bet is try a little distance ....if you don't miss her after awhile ...chances are you never will..."absence makes the heart grow fonder"Good luck

Allie P · #4 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 02:36 AM

love is a strong word but if you think you love her then no matter if you fight you still love her. all you need is some alone time with her take her some where were your all alone make it romantic. the best way to love some one is by marrige. if you realy love her then...propose. love is normally in family.