Need some love advice please!?

I'll keep this short. I've loved someone for the past two years. He is the fist person I've had this sort of deep feelings for. So I kept waiting for him until he got back together with his ex. That was the most painful experience ever, seeing the person I love with someone else. I know that it wasn't meant to be, I understand that but even though my head tells me to just date other people my heart is holding on to him. Why is that?There's no chance for us because even though he knew how I felt about him he still chose to be with his ex who made him miserable. (he told me that she made him miserable). I could never be with someone who came to me as a last resort, because it didn't work out with the girl he really loved.Any advice on HOW to move on will be greatly appreciated.

I had the exact same problem as you. I loved someone for 4 years, and he never returned my feelings, and then I found out that he had a girlfriend. It crushed me to bits but then I realized that it isn't meant to be and I need to move on for my health. I cut off all contact with him and I don't see him anymore and it helps. I know that you will probably hear this all of the time but time does heal all wounds. Once you start living your life, and doing different things, without him in your life, then you will feel happier, and you will meet someone else. Trust me, it will be hard at first, I am going through the same thing are you are going through right now, and I am trying to keep busy to keep my mind off of it. Of course it will bother you, but you need to keep your distance from this guy and start looking at other guys. If you need to talk, please send me an email and we can chat. Good luck!