gay love advice?

Mykael-Fierce · #1 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 08:54 PM

I'm gay, I like this guy on Match.com. He's 30, I'm 20. I sent him an email asking him if he wanted to go get drinks and chat. And he responded,"I am looking for someone a bit older. Be good."I responded and said"thanks. you be good as well"He seems so nice and he has everything that I'm looking for. I don't know what to. I'm the type of person, once I get hurt, I recover easily. However, I've been crushing on him for about a month now. I want to email him back, but I wouldnt know what to say.I'm black and I always been attracted to Indian and arab guys and I never seemed to attract them. I dont know. just want to find love. I just want to find someone whose going to like me as much as I'm going to like him. I just need some advice.I

lilplastiqcastle · #2 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 02:16 PM

yeah, probably better keep looking. You seem sweet so I'm sure you are going to find the right guy soon. Until then have fun and be safe!L

Abby Normal · #3 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 04:36 PM

I would probably email back and ask why he wants someone older. Is it just the attraction? Is he going for"maturity"? I would probably add"you never know until we meet up".Other than that, I'm not sure. I seem to be attracted to people that don't share the feelings too o_O

gabe! · #4 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 10:48 PM

keep lookinj\g too many people out there to obses over 1 person if he doesnt like u and if he is that much older that u good luck =)

neueziel987 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 03:12 AM

Well when looking for love someone that is not interested is the not the best place to start. The best thing I can say is to look at whats in front of your face. Love is always hiding right where you would least expect it