I have a very sturbon husband and very difficult to relate with but i love him too mu

First of all, your problem is a little vague. You just say your husband is stubborn. Join the club. Stubborn about what? If he is stubborn about how he wants his clothes washed. Well then that is a little different about being stubborn about not wanting you to ever leave the house or talk to your family.

If it is something serious, then you need a serious action. Like separation or marriage counseling.

Sit down and talk out the situation with him. I'm sure he will understand if he loves you just as much as you love him. Also, try to think and work out in which matters he is stubborn and is it may be because he loves you.

It seems to me like you two are totally different people, which is okay...humans were made to be unique. I love my husband, and it is hard to relate to him b/c we are so different and two very stubborn people. However, I would never dream of leaving him! I think that's your problem. You wrote "I'll leave him to get someone better"...I think if you really love your husband, then you'd be thinking he is the best. What I do w/ my husband is to always keep myself open to him and where he's coming from. Try not to keep a tunnel vision on him, but look at the sides as well. It's hard to do, but your marriage will benefit from it. You never know, he could be thinking the same about you...that your sub born and difficult to relate to. Best of luck to you!

First u need to make sure that the problem is not from u, then make him understand that he's Ur life (If he really is). It could be that u are trying to prove Ur equality with him, that pisses us off, u need to show him that u are subject to him and that he owes u (even when u know that u earn way more than him). If u really love him, and know what love is, then u should do all things just because he wants them done that way (Even when they are against Ur wishes). It's then left 4 him to also do things Ur own way if he really loves u. Hope this help. Good luck!!!

remember,marriage is forever!when you start to feel like you just cant take anymore,start remembering why you married him in the first place.Anything in life worth anything is gonna be hard work.

I am only 22 and you may not consider my viewpoint as my age would not authorize you to believe it. I was just "fascinated" by your question. First, eveningGHQou have the feeling that you're losing your love for your husband, still wife shouldn't leave them. Good that you love your husband that much. Trying to fix your marriage and making it work no matter what is a great struggle. You may look at some points to these advise: accept the person who is he. He may be stubborn according to your discretion maybe becks your trying to make him go to the way you want him to. Just in case, since I don't know the details. In trying to accept someone is loving his all including his stubbornness. Determine in what, where, how, why he become such, then try not to put your on that steps. You might get pissed off that much but you love your battle, right? I would also say that, communication is a must! Initiate it yourself. I've known of couples with the same case as yours. But this is also great option if those wont work. Focus your attention to the household chores and to your kids. Tend on your responsibility religiously but don't forget him, too. Sooner or later, he'll see what a wonderful wife you are! Don't forget to ask for help from the Great Provider. He wont fail you. Trust and faith is what He is only asking.

God bless!...
"a merry heart doth good like a medicine" (from the Bible)

I understand completely. I have the same problem. I have come to this conclusion. Communication is key. If you can't speak to him about things and be understood or at least sympathized with, there is a problem that won't go away. If he loves you more than himself, than he will come around. But selfish people have a hard time giving up being right for having peace in their lives. So ask yourself if being right is worth sacrificing peace, and you have your answer to whether or not to leave him. Good luck!!!